Well let me tell you all a little bit about myself. I I don't
really have a home but the place I will go to at the end of the
year if I have no where else to go is my hometown in NY.
I have goals and one of them is to become an accountant and acquire
my masters in accounting the year after I graduate and take the
C.P.A exam that same year and start work for a major accounting
firm that summer hopefully. I hope to become successful and pay off
my student loans within the two years after I graduate. I want to
move into a house of my own by the time I am 25/26. There are many
other things I would like to accomplish before I hit 28 and since I
am 9 years from that point I think it is irrelevant
here.
Now as for a
MALE
partner...
Some of the things I look for in men include:
LOYALTY/FAITHFUL.....
personality
thoughtfulness
passion
"gentleman on the street/freak in the bed"
willingness to explore
flexibility
sex appeal
good looks: pleasant smile and nice body
*****THERE ARE MEASUREMENT REQUIREMENTS*****
^^ and when i say that i mean.. below the belt line...
sense of humor
common sense
ability to teach and learn
well-rounded
educated
not "ghetto fabulous"
Now
to be crystal clear
about what I mean by some of these things, I have decided to
clarify and be more specific...
As far as
thoughtfulness, my best example would be a guy is on his way down
Fordham blvd. and happens to pass a store and sees this dress that
he thinks would look good on his girl and perhaps goes and buys it
and gives it to her when he sees her, just because shes means that
much to him and he was thinking of her. Those types of things show
her that you were thinking about her today and something reminded
you of her. Even as small as, I know she likes gobstoppers and you
happen to be at the gas station with no intention of buying any
candy, just getting your gas and leaving and you see the
gobstoppers and decide to buy them because you know she loves them.
That's something I'd love to find in a man because that is exactly
how I am and I will treat you how I want to be treated because it
is my only way of showing you what I want without having to tell
you.
Flexibility meaning you are willing to change and compromise.
Meaning you are bendable and open-minded.
Teach and Learn: meaning you have something that you can teach me
about life and experience and there are things that you still need
to learn and you understand that.
Each of these things
are fairly-extremely important in a man for me. I am very caring
and thoughtful. I am a sensual and passionate person. I give all of
me when I am in a relationship because I feel if you don't give
your all then you never wanted it to last to begin with. I don't
need someone who is trying to just play around, I am looking for a
serious relationship that plans to last well past my college
career.
I need a financially stable person who is goal-oriented. One thing
I cannot let happen to me that happened to my mother is being
outrageously successful and married to a bum who doesn't work or
makes no where near what I do. I believe that the stress hse had to
endure because she had to handle everything partially killed her. I
am thankful for the time she was able to make for me. I should have
seen a mom who didn't have much time for me and was always working,
but instead I saw a mom who seemed to have all the time in the
world. While working many hours she still had time to make millions
of memories with me that make me feel like I had an ideal
childhood, I am so thankful for that.
So, I need a man who is going to make something of himself, not
because I want someone with money, but because I don't want to go
through life feeling stressed that I can never take a break because
if something happens we won't be taken care of.
I enjoy dancing, watching movies at home or the theater (I will
seriously do it all day), reading and I love to shop. I always buy
the books I read because I hope to have library full of books I've
read when I move into my first home.
For dates I think bowling is fun when you have known the person for
a little while (month or two) and ice-skating is also a good idea
after having known each other for a bit. I think as far as things
I'd like to do with a woman besides some of the things female
friends do together include: going to charity events or luncheons
for a good cause, cocktail parties, any social events that
generally attract people of a higher social standing (like
professionals).
I love Red Lobster, Chili's, and Olive Garden.
