WHY I USE SELDOM SEEN?????? "Good Black men are indeed all around. Women Pass them on the street, mall and the halls at work. Most women can't see because they don't know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn your heads.He might not wear a suit or push a lex. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face. " But as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back than someone who turns your head. A good man donesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. he doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada, yada, he is(he won't have to because it shows) He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he dosen't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to be wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with fraities and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!!" A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living that fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that black men are no good. It's just not true.( WE ARE JUST SELDOM SEEN!!!!!!)
