SEXYSTEF aka CALIGURL
****************************** *UPDATED as of 12/12/09********************** ******* Reluctantly, I have concluded that....there are some real wierdos on here....more so than not, so I am seriously considering closing my page indefinately! And the countdown begins....gimme your thoughts on this! Should I leave BP forever??? Hit my inbox!
****************************** *UPDATED as of 12/19/08********************** ******* Men, Men, Men!!!! Just be who you are, not who you "used" to be! It's okay to dream, but have dreams that are attainable AND legal! Additionally, women like things like romance, they like to feel special, wanted and needed; without feeling smothered, harrassed or fearful! We like simple things, like a soft unexpected touch, or kiss; a conversation that interests both; a genuinely loving look; we want a man with goals(that he would like to achieve), drive(to achieve the goals he has set), charm(to insure the success of those goals), but most importantly, for me...I want a man with Faith! The Faith he has in God will also be the Faith he has in himself! I need a man with Faith...I need that! You do not have to be in church every Sunday to know the Lord, but you do have to know, love and respect his power! Those are not hard qualifications, right?! Not at all, so what's the problem, men??? Listen, do not waste my time if you cannot at least meet those bare minimum requirements...
****************************** UPDATED as of 07/16/08********************** ********
Despite the "Involved/Partner" status that was listed on my page for the past few months, I am very much single again! In addition to that, I am now also a flight attendent! Soooooooo....I will be traveling, alot!
Care to join me? Only serious men need apply....just kidding, I'm not interviewing, or anything, but there will be a screening process for my next man, my future man....And I'll just say this....have your stuff together AND don't waste my time!
Good Luck and May the Best Man Win! (Cocky, huh? hahahahaha, I can afford to be...hahahahaha)
By the way, I AM VERY MUCH WORTH IT...just ask any of my X's...lol...
Seriously, if you are interested in getting to know me, look at my photos below, keep reading and send me note. ~Take Care!
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I know you are wondering why my user name is SexyStef...Well, that`s because my name is Stephanie and men usually refer to me as sexy because of my beautiful smile and long, sexy bow-leggs! I`m not being conceited...Just honest! Sexy is not a physical state, but a state of mind. It`s something that can be portrayed in everything or nothing! It`s a perception...and it`s conception starts in your mind! So, you see...not everyone can be sexy and believe me, others will know. You either have it or you don`t...if you do, you`ll have that glow. That kinda glow that follows you in everything you do...Sexy am I, how about you?
Originally from Cali(San Diego), I now reside in ATL...Imagine that...A Cali Gurl in the ATL and I`m lovin` it! I miss the weather from Southern California and the Shopping, but there are other things here to keep me occupied...BEST BELIEVE!!!
Unfortunately, I don`t usually enter any of the chatrooms, I just don`t have the time. I used to come online everyday, I had the kind of job that could afford me that luxury at the time, but since becoming a business owner, I just don`t have the time to come online anymore. I probably come online about once a month now...
I am a very independent and determined young woman...Alot of men find that disturbing and are intimidated by that fact...If a man finally does work up the nerve to approach me, within minutes he will reveal that he either thought I had a man or that he thought I was unapproachable...Neither of which is true...Okay, so now you`re asking, well, why are you single?
And I answer, mostly, by choice...If the right man comes along...(smile) But it`s kinda difficult to meet anyone when you are always working and hardly playing...Anyone who is self-employed can understand that statement...Don`t get me wrong, I love to play...I just don`t have any (male) friends to play with right now...But if I had some (male friends), I would definately make the time!
I am confident and secure, not only as a woman, but as a black woman...
I am a very outgoing young woman with a good heart...And the relationships that I have developed down through the years have only enhanced my personality...I have grown...mind, body and soul...
I am proud of the woman that I have become...And I look forward to meeting my future...I don`t need a man to fulfill myself, but it sure would be nice to share my life with one...eventually!
I would appreciate it if only mature, intelligent people left messages for me...I am not a child, so I don`t want to deal with any rude, disrespectful or unstable people. I am respectful to all, so if you have something positive to say, by all means, leave me a message! I would love to hear from you! I really would!
P.S. I did major in Journalism, so I will be checking your grammar, spelling and punctuation!!! Just kidding:^)
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YAHOO MESSENGER ID: Caligurl619inATL
Thank you for taking the time to visit my page...Please feel free to come back and browse as often as you like. And if you have the time, please take a moment to leave a comment and/or rate my photo. Would you like to hear my voice? Check out my voicemail message below...Feel free to leave me a message! Also, below you will find some more photos, some black art and a poem; this poem, "Phenomenal Woman" by Dr. Maya Angelou symbolizes to me, my inner beauty, spirit, sexiness and grace...I love this poem, because once again it confirms my theory...that sexiness is a state of mind! Take care and...ENJOY!!!
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PHENOMENAL WOMAN
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I`m not cute or built to suit a fashion model`s size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I`m telling lies.
I say,
It`s in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I`m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That`s me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
They swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It`s the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I`m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That`s me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can`t touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can`t see.
I say,
It`s in the arch of my back,
The sun of smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I`m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That`s me.
Now you understand
Just why my head`s not bowed.
I don`t shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It out to make you proud.
I say,
It`s in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
The palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
`Cause I`m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That`s me.
(SMILE)
