ShayLaray21 Ask Val stopped in to drop a line, click a glass and talk some ***. Muah darlings i'm BACK! - March 24, 2011 add/view comments (5)

Ok so i'm back BP family. And I wanna thank everyone for the Birthday wishes. I blew out all of my  candles and had fabulous celebration. So on to today's topic: "Cougars"- What exactly does that mean? A older woman trying to get her freak on? Or a women looking for her second life.

Or a younger guy in the mist of a mature women who is about to turn him out and teach him about life. I have been hanging out with several so called "Cougars" lately... (continue reading)

Hello beautiful people of Black Planet,

Ask Val been gone a minute, but now i'm back in the hut stirring up a new spell of chocolate dipped questions and stories.

The topic is a serious one for sure. See I never could understand a mother/father that is so involved with being their kids freind that they totally forget about they are adults. So here's how this goes. My niece (true story) was argueing with another 14 teen. Hint the age.!!!!!!! When the girl mom... (continue reading)

Hey Black Planet family,

Summer is here and life is revolving. So when it's hot outside i do notice people get brand new and sexier. With that in the air if you had a male friend/ female friend and you spend alot of time with him. Do you think that  you can just be that. Knowing that men and women are naturally attracted to one another. Is this really possible?

Can you hang out, share inner secrets and possess each other private space on a daily basis. I say yes. I think it... (continue reading)