Lust vs. Love: Which one are you feeling right now towards that special someone? Do you know the difference? When did you realize the difference? Some people still don't know how to separate the two .

I've been in a relationship for 12yrs...3 kids...not married. I'm not working & for the past 3 or 4yrs I've been so miserable & living in a shell. We don't talk...don't go out....& lately we don't sleep in the same bed. Should I feel guilty for wanting to leave as soon as I get stable?

Would u say anything...or act like u neva saw me on bp?