Snow4Night How you doing? Sign my guest book while you are here. Let me know you stopped by. Leave me some comments as well. - January 13, 2011 add/view comments (1)

Hello Bp fam and friends! My name is Helen and I decided that it is time to introduce myself and tell a little something about who I am and what I want.....

First and foremost, I am a single mother and my daughter comes first always! I have pics of her on here as well. Yes...She is mixed and I have always dated black men. Not racist. That's just my preference. She is 14 years of age and very impressionable. That is why at her age I say she comes first. I love doing things with my daughter! We have a great relationship and I am a package deal so if you choose to choose me then you choose her as well.

Second, and actually should have been mentioned first, I love God and I am a christian. Without the most Highest I wouldn't be and I take that very seriously! I need a man in my life that is spiritual as well. After all that is what will make the relationship work. Without HIM nothing is possible and I want and need a relationship that is blessed.

Third, I have been single and celibate for the past four years because of  abusive men in my past relationships. I have taken time out to heal, re-evaluate my method of choosing men, learning myself all over again, and building up my self-esteem to where it needs to be once again so that I wont keep settling for less than what I deserve. I needed to make sure that I was ready before I dealt with another man and make the same mistakes all over again. You cant keep making the same chooses in life and expecting different results because you will be disappointed.

Finally, I am a good woman. I have never been married although I do hope to be married one day. I like to cook. I read urban erotic romance novels. As I stated before, I absolutely love children. Not just my own. I am very humble and understanding. I love all sorts of love and affection and attention. I believe that hugs and affection can settle a lot of differences because as we all know, women have crazy hormones that act up and cause them to have mood swings and most of the time it is not justified. I know that a hug and a little show of care and affection can help out those situations. I write poetry. I love movies. I don't do drugs. I may drink on occasion. I don't work. I am on very limited income. I receive S.S.I. I am not looking for anyone to pay my bills or shower me with gifts. I am very independent and I take care of my child. I only have me to offer though. If that's not enough, please move on. I don't drive nor can I travel. Again, I have a child. I want a good,strong, independent man, that is loving, loyal, honest, respectful, and non-judgemental that knows how to appreciate a good woman in his life. Don't hesitate if you want to know more, Just ask. I don't bite.

By the way, If you have actually taken the time to read all that I have on my profile...Leave a comment while you are here if you are on my friends list. If not, please take a moment and sign my guest book. Tell me what you think or just say that you were here.

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