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    November 13, 2007

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What is it?

Posted August 06th, 2008 at 01:34am

What is it that we're looking for in this life? AND When we find it, do we know what to do with it? Do we know how to keep it? Do we know how to make it want to stay? Do we know how to take care of it? or do we just throw it away. Can someone please answer these questions for me??? Or are we just going around in circles!!! Hmmm!

Why is it!!

Posted July 25th, 2008 at 01:16am

Why is it sooooooooooo difficult for us as couples to get along... Why is so hard to let the man be the man... Why is so hard for the man to do the right thing and stand steadfast as trust is being gain... Why can't we just help each other excel... Why don't and can't we learn how to nourcher each other... Why do more women cheat these days... Why can't we be truthfull with each other... Does it matter who contributes the most money as long as we get where we want to go... How do we get... (continue reading)

Reflection of My Self

Posted April 01st, 2008 at 08:28pm

One of the hardest things to do in this life

is to be critical of one's self

to look hard at what I do

what I say, how I am first

before placing blame

is key to recovery

change starts within

Carrying excess baggage

usually weighs me down

clouds my thoughts

and stunts my growth

so I go searching inside

to find the answers to

why I am where I am

trying to find a way out

as I look deep into the... (continue reading)

Many Faces

Posted March 25th, 2008 at 04:53am

My tenderness

my cleverness

my lonliness

My boldness

my loveliness

my softness

my sexyness

my gratefulness

mixed with humility

and lots of passion

are all my

many faces and is

what makes me the

proud and blessed

woman I am!

It's Me

Posted March 07th, 2008 at 11:47pm

Who is it that will love you no matter what

who is it that will be with you to the end

no matter how many mistakes you make

who is it that will love you

and take care of you

on your good and bad days

look in the mirror

what do you see, it's me!

Learn key factors of life

to love yourself

it generates positive energy

and even if it doesn't

you still get the love you need

which gravitates people

trying just to... (continue reading)

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I am a 48-Year Young Sexy Diva! I love to write (poetry) in hopes that someday soon, I will have someone transpose my words into lyrics (Love Ballads). That is one of my major goals. I love to travel, cook and eat well! I work out daily and like to have clean fun. I am woman!!! I love to smile and laugh as often as I can. I love the gentle and better things in life. My favorite saying is "It is what it is". This my first day on the planet (11-13-2007) and I am having fun already reading the different sites. Many thanks to everyone that took the time to welcome me!! Note: To My Sistahs of All Colors: We can talk business only, I prefer strictly the male gender!!! Thanks for the compliment, it is well received!!

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easydee05

Male, Age Private, Brooklyn, NY

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mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

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"do we?"
by Str8teazer201


do we fight the darkness or let it go?
do we fight madness or let it flow?
do we fight the love or let it grow?
do we move fast or take it slow?

do we fall in love or jus sit and witness it?
do we love each other for life or of our existence?
do we understand what love is?
do we want to be apart of it?

do we believe this is a chance we should take?
do we wait until its to late?
do we become closer and raise the stakes?
do we wanna rush? or do we wait?

do we do this? or do we do that?
this is something i just have to ask
do we let it fall apart? or get back on track?

do we in each others heart?
do we make this fresh start?

do we forget what we had?
do we move on never remembering to look back?

but then i have to think ...
there is no us its only me


mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

Posted


When I lay my head down
at night, all I think about is you
and your beautiful light....

You make my eyes
gaze because your beauty has my heart... so amazing because
it makes me the king I am destined to be.... deep
down I know I have never felt no other
like this and that's why this makes this just as special
then any other.... because baby you know there
isn't another.... another who catches my heart
like the way you do.... the one who carry me
into her arms like a mother and a child... because baby... I am
your one and only baby.... because of your love and charm.....

I love you for everything you are.... you take me
in as your own... and you cover me before I turn as cold
as a stone.... baby you make me into a king with my very own
thrown.... and all your love has made my heart and insides shown....

and I know always and forever.... it will be me and you as one... because
nobody crosses our love paves like our very own......

and Forever and ever.... it shall be us in the end.... at ones side to stand, taking each other by the hand... because your my lady and I am your man... forever and ever...


robertjo

Male, 50, Charlotte, NC

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mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

Posted


"dreamland."
by Brook


Soft melodies take me away to dreamland
Sounds of our love bring me to a state of bliss
As i turn around i grab your hand
and the mood intensifies from our kiss
I just cant stop & my heartbeat matches yours
Under your spell, you intoxicate me
Your hands trace my body;; they begin to explore
Your just like a drug;; my mind becomes hazy
With just one touch my whole body stiffens
&& i begin to wonder if you can sense my fear
The music begins to pulse && i start to hear sirens
I try to remain calm;; my eyes blurred with a tear
You hold me closer and i feel your love run through me
&& i wonder if you feel my heart beating
&& i wonder what you think of me
&& i wonder if you can take me away

take me away from the pain
and bring me to a state of ecstasy
my mind is turning; im going insane
for the music that i love eternally


i awaken with a startle;; the dream is over
the soft melodies still echo around me
but the pain in my heart still lingers
only in my dreams with you;; is when im truly free


DistantMale

Male, Age Private, Chino, CA

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Evita11111

Female, 49, Spain

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Male, Age Private, Philadelphia, PA

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mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

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Whispers Of Love

Listen to the echo
As it whispers in your ear
It's calling out your name
For all the world to hear


It's a message from my heart
Of words I swear are true
It stirs a gentle wind
And speaks of love for you


Just listen to the birds
For I dedicate their tune
It will rise the morning Sun
While making flowers bloom


And butterflies will dance
From the whispers in the trees
While rainbows fill the sky
To a delightful summer breeze


So listen with your heart
And my voice will come your way
And whisper words of love
I'll share with you each day
Written by David Farrar


easydee05

Male, Age Private, Brooklyn, NY

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Spreadlo...

Male, 48, Trenton, NJ

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I JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU FOR THE FRIENSHIP THAT GOD WILL CREATE MY DEAR SO KEEP IN CONTACT
WITH ME SWEETIE, YOUR FRIENDSHIP IS NEW BEGINING
ITS VERY SPECIAL TO ME.

HUGS AND KISSES
XOXOXOXOXOXO
SPREADLOVE


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Male, 57, Killeen, TX

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To My Dear Friend,
I Want To Thank You For Being There For Me In My Time
Of Need.Thank You For All The Love You Showed To me.
The Prayers And kind Words Of Inspiration..Thank You.
Take Care And God Bless.
MY MEDICAL DIAGNOSIS: ABDOMINAL AORTIC
ANEURYSM.
SURGERY PENDING.
PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR ME.





mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

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ALL IN MY DREAMS

I cupped your face in my hand
Looking at you longingly, a soft gentle kiss I gave
In that moment, right there with you was all that matters
My heart received you, my soul opened up to you

In a crowded room I came up behind you
Blew soft kisses on your bare back and neck
Awakening feelings you didn't know
I sensed it all from the way my body responded to yours

She has me dreaming
The mind fascinates me,
Her voice has my heart beating like an African drum
I am swimming in the deep end and don't want to stop

She has a body that makes me see future generation
Every time I see her I can't help but marvel at this
Beautifully, wonderfully, and fearfully made creature
Of God

How beautiful we are together, in my dreams

Author unknown


ATS2008

Male, Age Private, Hattiesburg, MS

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TEXASGOD...

Male, 57, Killeen, TX

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Male, 57, Killeen, TX

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bustingl...

Male, 58, Salisbury, NC

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mmmidnite

Male, Age Private, Tampa, FL

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How Do You Make Love To A Black Woman?

How do you make love, to a Black Woman?
How do you make love to a Black Woman,
Romantically and Patiently;
Take the time to make love to her mind.
Fulfill all of her midnight wishes.
Cover her entire body with soft wet kisses.
Tell her, so that she will know!
There's no place on her body
your tongue won't go.
And, when you love a Black Woman,
you love her real slow.

How do you make love, to a Black Woman?
How do you make love to a Black Woman,
Passionately and Sincerely;
Let her Sweetness become your Weakness.
Do not use just the Male Pole, But include your ear.
Listen to the sweet sound of her moans
and see what you hear.
Feel the warmth and care of her loving embrace.
Place your mouth on hers and savor the taste.

How do you make love, to a Black Woman?
How do you make love to a Black Woman,
Sensually and Honestly;
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Tell her that you love her,
more and more with each passing day.

Let all of the fantasies that dance in her head.
Become her moonlight reality
when it's time to go to bed.
Kiss and lick all over her body
until you find all her right spots.
Touch and caress her soft skin
and make her real hot.
Mutual satisfaction is a lover's plan.
Love her, cause you are in love with her.
She's your Woman and your her Man.

How do you make love, to a Black Woman?
How do you make love to a Black Woman,
Lovingly and completely;
Love her until her "Screams of Passion"
are all you that hear.
Suck on her neck and stick
your tongue in her ear.
Hold her soft round ass
in the palm of your hands.
Let her sexual wishes
become your loving commands.

Love your Black Woman with
your Mind, Body and Soul.
She's the most precious gift on this Earth.
She's worth her weight in gold.

How do you make love to a Black Woman?
There's only one true way to start.
To make love to a Black Woman,
just give her your Heart.

Author Unknown


Justme4111

Male, 57, Piscataway, NJ

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