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UPDATED: 15 April 2007





Well I have been on the planet for a minute now and have had some really good experiences since I have been here.

I just wanted to take sometime to share a few thoughts about life as I see it. I had a discussion with a friend one day and I noticed how bitter she has become towards men. I asked why and she just said that all men are no good dogs, etc. Same spill that 84% of our future mother`s are saying. To me this is sad. I gathered a few more thoughts and feelings on the matter but I don`t feel like typing it all down.

The fact of the matter is that its sad how life has changed in the short time I have been on this EARTH from the way that I was taught about women and how to treat, love, respect and admire them and allow the rest I need to know and understand grow within me. I was raised in a household where women are regared as queens, so respect is a must or get beat down. I have had my moments where I have become frustrated with women and the way they act or have treated me. I tried explaining that it is wrong to place all men in that catagory because (not setting the full example) I am not the way most men are. She still didn`t want to hear it.

It truly made me sad to know that the actions of some men (INDIVIDUALS) have poisened our women so much that some have gone outside our race, some have choosen the sin of dating women, so have closed themselves off from love/relationships, I think we get the point. What happen to the days of the leading lady in our lives (GRANDMA)? The woman who can make all problems go away? The one who can make you go to sleep while scratching or oil-ing your hair? The one (when you were of age) you idlized the woman, you wanted, after?

Think about it...is it your mother, aunt, cousin, GRANDMOTHER, sister?

LADIES don`t think you are off the hook in this matter. Some of you are just as guilty because instead of maintaining your integrity you choose to step to some men`s level and "get your`s" by cheating, being sexually open with too many men, gold digging, etc. Its all fun and games until reality sets in. We joke about it and think some of the stories we share with our friends of hear on t.v. are cool but when you honestly think about it, its sad because we are insuring the destruction of our people, the end of love, the silence of romance, the death of that root we once called FAMILY. Love is truly in need of love<
Its sad that the attitude of women have become so sickening. A feeling of loneliness, sadness, distance, etc. that a man can`t even be a man and introduce himself properly to a woman without being dissed or simply dismissed at the word of "HELLO".

I cannot even dance with a woman in a club without the thought "HE IS JUST TRYING TO HIT THIS" crossing her mind and physically showing. I mean I love to get my freak on but I am not trying to take everything with a %#&@$! home with me, just not my style and you not knowing me but have passed judgement on my life and who I am is not right and I SPEAK THIS FOR ALL "GOOD" AND UPSTANDING MEN.

Those MEN OF EXCEPTION that are doing things with their life, I look to for inspiration of what I see myself as at the age of 30, 35 and on. I want a nice home, two cars, a beautiful wife and equally so children, a good job (that keeps us comfortable, ballin` is not a necessity). Some woman can`t even see passed a man`s look`s, car, clothes or the money he has spent on her...She (if the shoe fits, not all women) will take a beating or except infidelity/cheating for those diamonds in her ear.

Let`s think about what we do on a daily basis BLACK PEOPLE because it affects everyone we deal with whether we meant to or not. Love your neighbor not just your family or your friend because you may need them.

If I am wrong then prove it, change something that you know is wrong with you that not just I see, you do as well and that is why you question your integrity even now. One luv to all my people no matter who you are.



ABOUT ME: I am in the Marines, stationed in NORTH CAROLINA now by way of INDIANA and I hate it here, never care to come back. I have been in now for 11 years. I am 5`7", 160lbs., lightskinned, bald, brown eyes, well built(very fit) and anything else you want to know just ask.





Hit me up at SOULCHILD24B@aol.com or Spiritualbrother@yahoo.com. My other page is BLACKSOUL26. UNTIL THEN...

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