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Hello there, allow me to introduce myself. I'm Jason from Crescent Beach FL. Here you have a 34 year old gentleman, who's 6'4" tall, and about 265lbs. I'm not going to go into what I like here. A small investment in time on your part will go a long way. Nearly all of my interests are right in front of you. I'm on here to meet new people, exchange ideas, have a good time... This is mostly entertainment for me. If something comes of it then so be it. I wish to surround myself with positive, open-minded people... If you're selfish, or if thinking about someone else's well being is asking too much of you, then I doubt we will get along... I'm mindful of who crosses my path, I believe that nothing is by chance. God has a plan for us all, and uses us in many different ways. The type of girl that I would NOT be interested in meeting, or dating, would meet one, or more of the following criteria...

1.) Ladies, if you think you're all that, you can split, because you're not.

2.) You like to keep him guessing? Well, I'm too old for that sort of thing.

3.) Looking for a Sugar Daddy? I'm not into prostitutes.

4.) If you're from another continent trying to IM, or Web cam.

5.) If every other word out of your mouth is "like" I'm not interested in bubble heads.

6.) If you can't spell, or you spell with carets, ampersands, exclamation points, etc...

7.) If you've ever said that you want a "nice" guy, because you're lying. Women aren't attracted to nice guys, and you know it.

8.) If you can't keep your story straight, because I WILL call you on your bull%#&@$!.

9.) Looking for a "Phone/E-mail" friend, that's a colossal waste of my time.

10.) Last, but not least, if you are a "know it all" kind of person. I actually feel bad for you, because you have no idea how stupid you sound. You also have no idea what humility means either. I'm 34, and have no problem deferring to someone else's expertise. Even if they are *gasp* younger than me!

I know from experience that truth hurts. If any of that offended you, thats your problem not mine.

If you made it through unscathed, then let me congratulate you!! Feel free to peruse my page. I hope you find it entertaining, and insightful.

More about me...

I love God! Glory be to him. He has done so much for me in my life. If it wasn't for him, I would be laying in a gutter somewhere, or worse... Dead. Believe me when I tell you, that's an understatement.

I do my very best to not judge people. That's God's job. I'm not perfect, and don't pretend to be. I've made my fair share of mistakes, I have my faults, and flaws. So do you, it's what makes us unique.

I'm currently undergoing an overhaul of my attitude, and morale. I've been through some tough times the past couple of years, that was brought on by poor decision making on my part. No one has been harder on me than myself. I wake up every morning, and ask God to help me be a better person today, than I was yesterday.

I'm opinionated, yet open-minded. Although I may not agree with you, I'll respect your thoughts, and try my best to see things from your point of view. (Provided it contains at least a hint of logic) I must admit, however, that I do enjoy a spirited argument from time to time.

If you are fortunate enough to get to know me, you'll see that I can be a caring individual. I believe that it is my greatest strength, as well as, my greatest weakness. I am a very trusting person too. Although I've been burned on a few occasions from being TOO trusting, I continue to believe in the inherent goodness of people. I hope never to lose that. I just have to be carful in whom I put my trust in.

I'm also very honest, often times, to a fault. If you need someone to tell you what you want to hear all the time, you probably aren't going to like me... At all. Ladies, if you ask me if that ugly dress you just bought looks good on you, and it doesn't... I'm going to tell you that it doesn't... Look it's not the clothes, make up, or jewelry that makes a woman beautiful. True beauty comes from within, from your heart, from your soul. Don't listen to what the magazines, or TV shows say. Everyone of us is beautiful in our own way, regardless of how ugly the dress is...

I am an emotional person, filled with love, and passion. Emotional does not mean cry baby, don't get it twisted. I tend to wear my feelings on my sleeve, so to speak. I speak my mind, and am not embarrassed to talk about my feelings, or emotions.

I consider myself to be romantic. I open doors for ladies, pull the chair out for them when we go to dinner. I'll have a rose, or two when I pick you up for our date. If you're really special, I may even give you a hand written card, or note. I'm old fashioned in that respect I guess. I don't believe chivalry is dead, yet. I'm not afraid of PDA, although I don't do the whole public make out session thing. I'm very affectionate too, I'll hold your hand, and I take pleasure in being all snuggled up with my lady. Oh, and I'm completely addicted to kissing. I'm keeping my eye out for the woman God created for me, the woman with whom I can share my love, and my life with. To give my mind, body, and heart to. I don't expect to find her on a web site, but God does work in strange, and mysterious ways.

I'm an open book, flip to a page, and start reading. If you like what you read, thats great. If not, then have a nice life. My life was OK before you entered it, and I'll be fine when you step out of it.

It's all about me in 2010, and beyond. I have my goals in place, I'm motivated to achieve them. Sure, I'm still a work in progress, aren't we all? I'm grateful to be able to see, in myself, what needs attention, and willing to do something about it. In the end, I'll be stronger for it. So go ahead drop me a line... Or not, makes no difference to me at all. I keep in mind something that Robert Frost once said, "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on."

Indeed it does Bob, indeed it does...

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