Welcome to my world. I would like to extend my invitation to all the grown and sexy ppl here on BP. This page is definitely for the grown and sexy. Please no boys, want to be players, down low brothers, married men, lesbians and men with low self-esteem. I do welcome all my haters/motivaters. Due to BP upgrades I was forced to place my page under contruction. I will continue to provide very valuable information. In the mean time I would like to ask all the ladies to keep your head up high, keep your eyes on the prize, don't ever lose sight, never settle for less and learn or continue to be self sufficient. Also remember ladies you must love thyself before you can love anyone else. Men only do what you allow them to do. Don't act out of desperation, don't believe the hype that there are no good men left, it's plenty of good men around, maybe it's where you are looking, maybe you need to let go of that old baggage, maybe your expectations are to high and maybe you just haven't came across that good man, or maybe you have pass several looking for Mr. Right who doesn't exist. Don't look for anything that you are not able to give yourself. Remember success attracts success, money attracts money, birds or a feather flock together. As for my precious black men, I am not talking to you boys. I am speaking to our strong black men. The one who's holding it down, spending time with their kids, working, being the man that he should be. The one who knows how to treat a woman, the one who knows how to provide, the one who's not afraid to cry, the one who know to set aside his pride, the one who is not afraid to stand up, stand tall, and be the kind of man he was place here to be. I would like to say continue striving for the sky is yours, don't let this system detour you, undermine you, nor forsaken you. For my brothers who are incarcerated. Just because you are locked up don't mean your minds have to be. Free yourself, by educating yourself, rehabilitating yourself, redeem yourself and love thyself. For the world is your's as well as mine's. We have more power than we know, we must reframe from this systematic suicide and reclaim our dignity. This sement is to be continued at a later date.
I know some of you are pretty excited. Excited about our President elect Barack Obama. I would like to let you as in my brothers and sisters. I have been reading the papers and listening to the radio. I was quite astonished at what I was hearing. My brothers calling in 38 hot, making crazy suggestions that President Elect Obama should have a black cabinet or he should hire mostly blacks to his cabinets. First of all I must tell you, President Elect Obama is not just for black people. He's for everybody. So don't get it twisted just because he's black. He's for the likes of the world. Someone who is very capable of uniting us. Believe it or not we have a lot to lose and/or gain with this presidency. Depending upon whether President Elect Obama is a success or a failure during his presidency. If he succeed so do we, we as in black people. If he fails so do we. Every die hard republican, red-neck, ignorant black person, or other person who is against his presidency is counting on him failing. If he fails well this country will continue the exploitation of us. They have done so thus this far through the media, the judicial system, welfare system and every other system that out there. When I say they, this country, I am not specifically speaking about everyone, only those in which it applies.
We constantly fighting one another each and everyday. Not really recognizing how we are doing what others would like for us to do. We constantly on a daily basis show the world exactly what some want us to do. If you have ever paid any attention to the media. No other race is depicted the way black people are. We are constantly taking from one another; through back stabbing, stealing, lies, and who knows what else. We are jealous of one another instead of embracing one another, praising one another, we get certain positions, or we open our own businesses, and we tend to look down on our own. Then when business deteriorate and/or colapse we pretend we don't know what happen, I shop at businesses where there are us, black people in charge and boy we have an attitude out of this world. Yes, the world owe us. But people we got to wake up stop being so ignorant. Educate yourselves. Rehabilitate yourselves. Renew yourselves. Look what President Barack Obama, has accomplished. How? He's educated, smart, determined, focused, goal oriented. He had brilliant people with money, faith, and trust behind him. A black man, he has rose above the unthinkable and accomplished the unthinkable.
So can you. YES, WE CAN. C H A N G E isn't a bad thing. Something we as black people need. We can do it. We must believe it in order to achieve it. Stand Up, be tall, be heard just like President Elect Barack Obama. So so in a positive manner. It's time to follow this role model that we have going to Washington D.C as President in January.
My precious, precious black men, I pray that we stop the black on black violence. I understand your pain, your struggle, your journey, and your obstacles that you are faced with daily. It's hard to stand tall when no one understands you. I want you to know I understand. I believe in you. You have been torn down, stripped of your pride, your ability to provide for your family has harden, your women have lost faith, you have become an endangered species, some of you are and have been to coerced to set yourself up for entrapment. I know that road is hard, and it gets steeper everyday. I know you are constantly misunderstood. I am constantly defending you against people who have never had to wear your shoes,or endure your pain, but yet they are very opinionated. I fight for you. I argue on your behalf. Because for one I am black and I am a woman who understand your pain and agony.
See a sister like myself will be given a chance ten times greater than you. You know why, well some would rather I be successful, so I can continue to feel I don't need you, so I can continue to be Mrs. Independent, who doesn' need a man. So I can continue to belittle my black brother. So I can continue to raise my 2 boys alone. They are betting on me misguiding my 2 wonderful boys, in hopes of me failing and my boys going astray and becoming a victim to this system. But I refuse to allow that to happen. I keep it real with my boys, I tell them the truth, I try to give them a vision of this world for what it is and not what I want it to be. See game has to recognize game in order to play the game. Some things you will never be able to change you accept it, but the things you can, you must change. But either way you have to recognize the difference between the two. FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION.
You to are human, sensitive and yes, you have feelings too. Yes you need love. You need someone to believe in you. Well I do. I want you, my precious black men to know if you believe in yourself, know thyself, educated yourself, you can elevated yourself. Learn this world, the system, how it operates, empower yourself and most of all free yourself. In order to conquer anything you most first understand what you are up against. Generate a plan, penetrate it and accomplish it. You guys are very strong, unique and powerful creatures. You are the original kings of this world. You have been over thrown, but it yours to reclaim. Don't continue to be manipulated, coerced, and exploited. It so much out here to be accomplished. It's yours for the taking.
If you are around negative people, let them go. It's a trap, birds or a feather flock together. If you constantly looking to beat someone out of something, let it go, because you become the victim in the long run. Be honest. Don't put a price tag on everything, because there are some things money can't buy. Put someone's trust before money. Stop selling one another out. Stand up for something worthy or you'll fall for anything. Close the revolving doors at the prisons and place them at a local library, college, trade school, or a book. You don't necessarily have to go to college to be educated. If you can't go over then go under. If you can't go to the left then go to the right. If you can't in the front then go in the back. Knowledge is freedom. When the po po stop you, know your rights, it could save you a night in jail. When you are trying to reclaim something, know your rights, be honest and true to yourselves and you will prevail. Until next time. PEACE.
