Latest Update on me: I'm in a great Relationship with a good Man for the last 7 Months and took myself out of Online Circulation ..lol..to avoid Misunderstandings and out of Respect for him..hope my Friends on here are doing well and Life is treating y'all well. Just looking to have intelligent conversations.If you like an outspoken, honest, down-to-earth and say it like it is Female..You found someone that keeps it real on this page . If not ..do not bother with me and move on to the next page .

Here is some food for thoughts:

Lots of profiles say " No Excess Baggage".
Well if you have reached 40+ and have no "Excess Baggage" then...

You have not loved
You have not lost
You have no children
No one has died
No one has been born
You have had no relationship
You have not lived

"Excess Baggage" is what made you the person you are today. It is how you deal with it and live your life now that matters.

Love is everything it's cracked up to be...It is really worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.
Erica Jong

Behaving like an azz does not have to be a lifelong chronic affliction, if you do not want it to be !

If you read this far and still want to know about me, contact me. If you contact me though, be real and not about any BS.I do not play games nor do I like to be played. My time is as valueable as the next persons. Come to me correct and respectful as I will do the same.

Here is an add-on that I need to have on my page , despite thinking I keep it real enough already.

Men: DO NOT waste your nor my time approaching me with any idea of getting me to indulge your "freaky/ nasty" side online. I DO NOT like" webcam fun" nor will I send you any pictures of my "assets". Do you see me halfnaked or crawling on all fours on a bed / floor in lingerie? NOPE..did not think so. So why would I do it for YOU ???Get a grip, move onto to the women on here , that like that kind of stuff and really I will survive another 40 some years not having known you!!! Any more clarification needed, just make the mistake approaching me like that and be ready for my frank brutally honest response. Just DO NOT do it. BP is a great place to be on by having the "Block Member " feature available to me.

Women: Do NOT waste your time writing me about my point of view of halfnaked, let it all hang out and floor/bed crawling females on here. It will not change .That's the reason I have to deal with men , who get the wrong idea about me and my intentions, unsolicitated and uninvited. You all do your thing , I do mine...just make sure to keep the freaks hooked on you , so they do not bother me .