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It is encumbent on each of us to remember it is not the destination that defines who we are, rather the journey and the choices we make as we travel the path that leads us to our true selves.

I am a newly single 28 year old man living in Houston. I have no kids, a job, my own car, and my own place. I am here to make friends and see what happens after that. I would like to find a woman who's my speed: intelligent, fun, erotic and adventurous. I would prefer a woman who can make her own way- it's not my intention to be a sugar daddy, so gold diggers, take that as a queue to look elsewhere. If you want to make friends and get to know me, drop me a line. I will respond.

In the meanwhile, keep your head up and eyes open...everything around us right now is NOT ok...
WANTED:

Attractive, intelligent, fun-loving woman for friendship and intimacy leading to a life-long adventure. Must possess the following characteristics (they are in no certain order- just the ones with the CAPS are DEALBREAKERS):

MUST be intelligent- and I do not mean just able to make coherent sentences. I mean able to hold complete conversations on a wide variety of topics, or at least be willing to explore them. She should also have mastery of the English language- slang is cool, but there is a time and place for er-thing!

MUST understand that a virile man has needs that should be attended to. I hesitate putting this on front street like this, but to be honest, I am really not feeling a cold woman in the sheets. II am not saying this like you are here to serve my needs and my needs only either- I know you want it too. And believe me, I will give it to you!

MUST be a woman about her business- whatever that may be. Whether it is the home life or the job life, she should handle her business like a lady, and when she needs my help, she not hesitate to let me know.

MUST NOT be the jealous type. I have female friends that I have known for over 10 years. Many of them have children and/or boyfriends or husbands. She will know all their names, and they will all know hers.

Must laugh at my corny jokes. See, I did not hit this one with the caps because even I know sometimes my giggles are corny!

MUST be loyal. She will know that she comes before anyone else in most situations (sorry, you gotta be the WIFE before you get that #1 spot!) and I would expect the same. I understand I will not always be first to her either, but I should not be too far behind, as she never will be.

MUST be adventurous. Homebodies are cool, but she will be the type that likes to get out and see the world. I have a passport and I love to travel.

MUST care about her health. I do not mean she should be trying to look like one of the models on tv, but I am not tryin to lift her rolls up so we can get cozy either! I keep myself in decent shape, and I would expect the same from her. I will not wear the tire, so please do not bring the sandbags!

Notice I am not looking for a maid, mother or other such nonsense. I do my own wash, I clean up after myself, and I know how to behave no matter where I am. I am more interested in a companion that I can share my secrets with and someone who will share theirs with me. I love to laugh, I love romance, and I love to be sensual. Reciprocation is everything. As long she gives me what I give her, I do not see why we cannot make it.

I am not uptight or bourgeoisie however, I realize there may be some out there that read this list and say, who the hell does he think he is? and to them I would say MR. CHARLES RAY. I just know what I am looking for. Sometimes it is a little discouraging because on some days it really does seem to be asking for too much. I will not settle for LESS! I just did 10 years with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Eventually it all fell apart, and I think part of the reason is I began to compromise too much. You know when you start making deals with yourself to let someone else make it? I stopped holding her accountable and respecting myself and then it carried over to me disrespecting her and there you go...disaster. So, fresh off of I am preparing myself to try this thing again and hopefully get it right. Hope springs eternal... Any ladies that happen to actually READ this whole thing and not get completely freaked out by it, feel free to drop me a line. I am available for chat