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I am mature, confident, smart, sexy, and have a warm funny wonderful sense of humour. I am constantly striving towards being the best that I can possibly be, whether it be as a mom, or doing what I do best, simply taking care of business. I live each day likes its my last, and life to the fullest. I love to hang out with my girls and go out on occasion to my favorite night spot, spend quality time with my family. So guys if you would like to make a friend that is honest, loyal, kind and considerate, drop me a line!!!!!! ~ ps. ladies if your looking for a friend to talk too once in awhile, I`m a good listener .

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

Wouldn`t it be wonderful if our first love could be our one and only love, forever and ever, amen? Well, surly you know by now that life is not like that. People come and go in our lives, taking a little piece of our heart with them. As difficult or painful as it may be, that is exactly what they should do. We have more than enough love to share and spare, and we should give it freely. When we love for a reason it feels good to give love, because we get what we give. When we have a seasonal love, it is a whirlwind love, preparing us for something better. When those very special people come into our lives, we can and do love them forever. Loving is not what causes our emotional damage, it is the attempt to throw people out of our hearts and minds. When we love reasonably for the season we are in, we will undoubtedly enjoy a lifetime of loving.

~~~~~~~~ REASON ~~~~~~~~ When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometime they walk away. Sometime they act up or out and force you to take a stand. Whatwe must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. Theprayeryou sentup has been answered and it is now time to move on. Next!

~~~~~~~~ SEASON ~~~~~~~~ When people come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season. In the some way the leaves must fall from the tree, or the moon becomes full and then disappears, your seasonal relationships will end at the divinely appointed time. When that time comed, there is nothing you can say or do to make it wonk. There is no one you can blame. You cannot fix it. You cannot explain it. The harder you clutch, the worse it will feel. When the end of a season comes in a loving relationship, the only thing for you to do is let do.

~~~~~~~ LIFETIME ~~~~~~~ Lifetime relationships are a bit more difficult to let go of. When a parent, child or spouse is involved, the wounds are very deep. When the end of a lifetime relationship comes, you may feel that you would be better of dead. The pain seems to grow, the memories linger, a part of your life is dying. You relive every painful moment in an attempt to understand. Your job is not to understand. Your job is to accept. Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. They are the most difficult lesson to learn, the most painful to accept; yet these are the things you need in order to grow. When you are facing a separation of the end of a lifetime relationship, the key is to find the lesson; love the person anyway; more on and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships.

If you want to talk with a woman that don`t mind tak`in a little time for good conversation, you can find me at (u_nikque @ yahoo.ca or hotmail.com), talk to you soon.