The most important thing that you should know is
You Are Beautiful!
and don`t let anyone tell you otherwise..
Before You Form Your Opinion
Not everything in my personal message belongs to ME. My mission is Total Clarity while enlightening other intellectuals..
- I am NOT -
In doubt, Mad, Bitter, Resentful, Upset, Jealous, Dr. Phil or Dr. Ruth
August 8th - "You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else"
Read The Following Questions Out Loud, Then Answer Them Out Loud:
Do I make me happy?
Why does my family love me?
How do I treat myself?
What do I admire about myself?
Would anyone say anything about my character I'm not aware of? (think long)
Can I change my weakness into a strength and love me in the process?
Do I know what my love language is? (google "The Five Love Languages")
Meditation brings clarity. Relax your mind and the answer will come to you like a thief in the night. IT WORKS!! With practice, we can learn to better manage our thoughts. We can learn to filter out negativity (which is the root of all our evils). We can learn life outside of our own, then apply it any situation we want.
But First, I must know me intimately.. Treating my life as if I hit the Lottery.. I need to become excited about my dreams.. becoming more social with my thoughts.. I need to show others that I am confident in myself and in them.. and finally, don't just think..ACT!!
September 26th - "We all SHOULD learn from our experiences."
Sometimes you find yourself leaning towards the past. In part you think its because of your ability to 'sum people up'. It could be something he said, his demeanor or posture. Of course these things could be triggers to your past.
Your past will never leave you..Your past will NEVER leave you. It shouldn't leave. You should keep it with you and use the strength that you've gained from the experience. Use it for positive re-enforcement and motivation. After all, we strive to be the best that we can be, right? Your as strong as ever now!
October 12th - "Are You A Risk-Taker?"
The more you risk, the better your rewards..The less you risk, the less the reward..
How do you risk more without getting hurt? How do you risk less and get more?
Use The Common Sence Approach
Most women don't realize that men don't think as women do..men don't think as women do. Men are not as sensitive as women are. Things that mean a great deal to you..don't for men. You need to be successful in his world. Its actually not hard!!
We can't think like you!! BUT You CAN think like us!!
October 14th - Am I Thinking Too Much?
Sometimes I find myself in memorable situations. "I can't make the same mistake" and "I can't hurt like this again." I question the good in me. I question your motives. Why can't you be strait with me? I am masculine. I am simple. My life is blurry because I am a man. I think subconciously around you. You don't understand that I'm only a man.
You Must Think Like Me To Reach Me!
February 18, 2007 - I question your motives
The question is 'Do you really know what you want?' I question your motives... Do you think we can be successful if you temporarily accept me with the intent of molding my being? I question your motives... Will you accept my worst trait as you do God? I question your motives... Can you strongly disagree with me one moment and adore me the next? I question your motives... Do you know what it means to truly be compatible? I question your motives... Do you know my love language?
March 30, 2007 - Can We Be Friends?
You think you can accept me now..You think we are on the same line of understanding.. You think you know me without question.. You think you've been successful in predicting my present and future.. But the real question is 'Can you be my friend?' Do you think I like the 20 question routine? Do you think I like it when you purposely alter your personality to fit in? Do you think I like it when you accept an issue to avoid a negative action or reaction? Do I act differently with my other friends than you? (Why) Maybe we're not friends yet? Want to know how to be friends with a man? (send me a note...)
Reach deep within yourself. Within your heart of hearts and you will know.
I Might Be The One!
June 4, 2007 - "Ignorance - we all have a little"
Sometimes we feel we must speak, but we find it a little difficult to express ourself in a way that doesn't disrespect or hurt others. Sometimes we must make our opinion heard without fully understanding the results it can bring. Without fully understanding, us men say 'Come Correct or Don't Come AT ALL'. In school, when debating you learn not to ask a question that you don't know the answer to. Without knowing the rules of engagement, someone WILL be hurt. Will it be you or me?
What Do You Think...
