As I sit here another night in front the computer I began to wonder who the real me is and what will it take to me happy. That is a very complex question that one would think at 36 almost 37 in a few months I would know. Right? Not! You see I was always thinking I am a confident multi-racial woman with #@!$ together and I needed no one but God and my kids and that was me. Not. Why yall let me think that to those who know me and knew better? Maybe becaue some of the best sense is bought... (continue reading)

Today is a day to make me wonder about how people mostly men think. I hear men say that they want a woman who is smart,independent,sexy and honest but is that really what they seek. You can be all those things and still meet the most ridiculous men here and in your everyday life yet we as women continue to seek. What is it in us that make us try so hard when so little effort is obviously put toward meeting us. What happened to the day where a man introduced himself very politely and if he... (continue reading)