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Hey, I am going to keep this information about me very blunt & straight forward. I am sure everyone can respect that.

I am twenty three years old, soon to be twenty four in May. I have never been married or engaged, I have been in love twice, I love children but I do not have any kids, and I do not believe in abortion unless under extreme conditions. I am a very strong, punctual, sweet, caring, affectionate, giving, too giving at times, sensual, compassionate, tough and tender, smart, beautiful, understanding, and yes, stubborn sometimes. I do have curse words in my vocabulary that I do use, yes I know, It's not very lady like and I've tried to remove all cursing from my vocabulary but that is a hard task. No I do NOT curse like a sailor!! I am just letting you know that I do curse. If you are not READY for a Good Woman, than you are NOT ready for me. If the simple fact of a good woman intimidates you, and you are afraid it can not be true... than you are not ready for me. Don't get me wrong, a good man can make me ponder if it's too good to be true, but I know that I deserve a good man. I am ready for him. If you do not know what you WANT & NEED, than you are not ready for me. If you do not know the difference between wants and needs, than, you are not ready for me. I understand that the makings of a good relationship, is communication, trust, and honesty. HONESTLY, if you can not communicate than there is NO relationship. Your partner should be your best friend & lover. If you have no trust, than the foundation of the relationship starts to crumble. If you are not honest with your partner, than there is no communication or trust... there is NO foundation for a good partnership, so therefore there shouldn't be a partnership. To make all of the above work, Understanding is right there with to Communication, Honesty, and Trust. I am the most UNDERSTANDING woman you'll ever meet. I understand that, that alone, is hard to trust or understand but, I am very understanding. You have to first put your faith in that, Trust me to be understanding, be honest with me, and you'll see... I am more understanding than you could ever imagine. In my past I've been in situations where the person I was with did not trust that, in fear that I would not understand (maybe go off), they lied. As lies do, they come out eventually or get shown in the light & I was upset at that point, that the person LIED instead of being honest about it, and it was something that I would have understood about from the beginning. Lying just made it worse. There is so much more about me to learn, you just have to find out for yourself. BTW: I will NEVER ask anything of you, that I would not do myself. I do not expect anything out of you that I would not expect from myself.

MY QUIRK(S): I sometimes forget simple (usually meaningless) things that I've been told (it's something that you will notice over time), but it is proven that if you REMIND me of what it was, I usually [99% of the time] remember. No, this does not mean that I forget birthdays, anniversaries, special events or times... It's hard to explain what I mean but let me just put it this way... If you & I listen to a song together and a few weeks/ months/ or years later you ask me if I remember, and I don't... Don't get mad! Especially if there wasn't a special meaning behind the song (LOL!). (Or) If you tell me something you were going to do or did do, and I don't remember AT FIRST politely remind me, and I am sure it will come back to me... However, NEVER use my memory issue against me, like tell me that you told me something that you NEVER told me because, as I said.. 99% of the time, I REMEMBER when I am reminded. My father & Brother both have the same issue.

I always get asked "what are you looking for in a man"? I will go over many aspects of what I am looking for. I am looking for a man who is down to earth, meaning that he doesn't live a life of Drama, he knows how to relax. I also am looking for a man who is a lot like me. I need communication, trust, understanding, honesty, and faithfulness. I want/need an affectionate man. I understand that in this world temptation will always be on the rise, and it will never be at a calm cool, always a simmer. But, When you are in love, and are happy... infidelity shouldn't be tempting... and If you are dipping into the boiling waters of infidelity... please, Respect us both and break off the relationship. I want and need a man who understands that a relationship is a partnership, I believe in a true 50/50 partnership. "Treat me like your Queen and I will treat you like the King that you are." Is my motto. When I love, I love with my whole soul, spirit, mind, and body. I expect the same in return. I want my man to be my best friend and my lover. A family man is always a good thing; I love my family (as tough as they are sometimes, lol). I do like to laugh and play around sometimes as well as be serious, so, a man who can laugh, is great! I want a man who can be honest enough to tell me that I look like crap when I walk out the door. LOL. In a nice way of course! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being honest when your wife/woman/friend asks you if she looks okay. Why would you send her outside with lipstick on her teeth or with herself looking all kinds of mess, especially if she is standing next to you? I want a man who wants at least one more kid in the future (if you have kid(s) already). I want a man who sees marriage in his future. I want a man who is independent but also isn't afraid to admit that he needs a woman as much as she needs him. Emotionally, Physically, & Spiritually. Now, let's be REAL blunt and honest for a moment You have to be attracted to your partner. I know that people say looks don't matter I don't believe that. There has to be SOME attraction to the other person. I do believe that with love, attraction GROWS wild, but there has to be attraction from the beginning. The most attractive person can turn into the most unattractive person when they speak, remember that. Attraction to certain things is NATURAL. That is why they call it natural attraction. What am I naturally attracted too? I am attracted to men who are taller than I. I am 5'6. I am a woman of full size but I am not naturally attracted to a man of full size. I look at hair first (I don't know why, lol). Short, Buzzed, Bald, Braids, and Twist are okay. I don't usually like long hair (on the daily) on a man. That's really about it when it comes to GENERAL stuff on a man physically... Everything else (physically, mentally and spiritually) depends on how we vibe together...



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