I CANNOT CHANGE THE DIRECTION OF THE
WIND. HOWEVER, I CAN ADJUST MY SAILS TO REACH MY
DESTINATION"
OTHER WISE
HAVE A GLASS OF HENNY AND 
THE NEW ME
AND PAGE OVER COMING MY GREATEST
RESERVATION EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING THAT THEY ARE AFRAID OFF. FOR
SOME IT IS THE FEAR OF SNAKES, HEIGHTS, THE DARKNESS AND AFRAID TO
DIE ALONE. SO WHAT AM I AFRAID OF?
WELL LET ME FIRST
SAY THAT I ACCEPT FULL ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THE CHOICES I MADE IN
LIFE. 
NEVER DID I REGRET
ANYTHING BUT TOOK IT AS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. MY GREATEST FEAR IS
MY GREATEST DESIRE. AS EVERYONE KNOWS THAT PASSED BY MY PAGE MY
SCREEN NAME IS WHEREISMYDESIRE. WELL I
WILL TELL YOU WHAT MY DESIRE IS. I SEEK OUT LOVE AND INSTANTLY RUN
AWAY FROM THE POSSIBILITY ONLY TO TAKE SOLITUDE IN RELATIONSHIPS
THAT DO NOT STRIKE A SINCERE THREAT. SO I HAVE COME TO THIS CONCLUSION TO MAKE A COMMITMENT TO
TAKE ANY ACTION THAT CHALLENGE ME ENOUGH TO EVOKE FEAR. I AM
STARTING TO BE CHALLANGED, IF ONLY BY A GLIMMER OF POSSIBILITY OF
LOVE. SO THE QUESTION IS 1. WILL I BE READY TO FACE MY FEAR? 2.
WILL I HAVE TO DIVORCE EVERYTHING I KNOW OF MYSELF TO DO SO?.....OR
IS THE JOKE ON ME? 3. IS EVERYTHING THAT I FEAR SIMPLY AN
ILLUSION?? ?? 
MY EXPRESSION
I AM AN
INDIVIDUAL WHO HAVE A TENDENCY TO ARTICULATE HERSELF IN A VERY
BLUNT MANNER TO OTHERS SIMPLE BECAUSE I AM NOT A BIG ADVOCATE IN
WASTING TIME WITH NICETIES. I TEND TO NOT EXPRESS MYSELF WELL
THROUGH MY FACIAL EXPRESSION OR BODY LANGUAGE ALTHOUGH I CAN BE
QUITE ELOGUENT WITH WORDS.
I DON'T SAY MUCH BUT
WHEN I DO SAY SOMETHING IT IS USUALLY ACUTELY OBSERVANT OR VERY
ENLIGHTENING. .
BEFORE I FORGET DID I MENTION
THAT I AM A PERFECTIONIST?????
SOME PEOPLE
DISTINGUISH ME AS VERY COLD AND EVEN SOCIALLY DYSFUNCTIONAL BUT
ACTUALLY MY DETACHMENT FROM OTHERS IS VERY SPIRITUALLY
SOPHISTICATED. I DON'T LIKE EXPRESSING MY EMOTIONS AND LIKE DOROTHY
PARKER SAID SPILLING ONE GUTS IS AS UGLY AS IT
SOUNDS.
I AM RELUCTANCE TO LET
ANYONE GET TO KNOW THE REAL ME IT IS AN INNATE DEFENSE MECHANISM
THAT PREVENTS ME FROM BEING HURT BY OTHERS. AM BETTER THAN ANYBODY
TO KNOW THAT KNOWLEDGE IS POWER AND BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THIS, I
DON'T WANT ANYONE TO HAVE POWER OVER ME NOT UNLESS YOU ARE GOD AND
HIS SON JESUS CHRIST. WHY BECAUSE I OFTEN PRECEIVE RELATIONSHIPS
AND THEIR ACCOMPANYING DRAMAS AND EMOTIONS TO BE AN INTRUSION INTO
MY PERSONAL HEADSPACE THE NEW ME YOU HEARD
WELL I AM CHANGING
NOW.
 
MY HEART IS TO BE ADMIRED AND CHERISHED.
THE HEIGHT OF PERSONAL
GRATIFICATION FOR ME IS TO BE DESIRED BY A SPCIAL SOMEONE. I HAVE
AN ENORMOUS FAITH IN OTHER PEOPLE AND IF THEY DO LET ME DOWN I TEND
TO BEHAVE, AS IF IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD. ONE OF MY CHALLENGES IS TO REALIZE THAT GOD IS PERFECT
AND OTHERS ARE NOT GOD-LIKE IN THEIR ACTIONS. NO ONE IS
PERFECT. 
STABILITY, EXQUISITENESS AND ORDER SATIATE MY
SOUL. I FIND A ZEN-LIKE SATISFACTION IN PERFORMING THE
SIMPLEST OF REPETITIVE CHORES AS I FEEL CLOSET TO GOD WHEN I AM
RESTORING HARMONY TO UNBALANCED SITUATIONS. I AM A PERFECTIONIST
THAT LOVES ART AND DESIGN. SOMETIME OTHERS DON'T COMPREHEND MY NEED
FOR EVERYTHING TO BE PERFECT AND OFTEN SEE ME AS
CONTROLLING.
CHANGES FUEL THE FIRES OF
MY INNER INFATUATION. . 
I HAVE AN INQUISITIVE MIND AND A
THIRST FOR VENTURE THAT IS ONLY SLAKED BY THE COLLECTING OF UNSUAL
EXPERIENCES AND PLENTY OF TRAVELS. I LOVE TO TRAVEL.
I APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT LIFE IS SHORT AND
I AM BOUND AND STRONG-MINDED TO MAKE THE MAJORITY OF EVEY MINUTE I
HAVE ON THIS EARTH A BLESSING. ONE OF
THE CHALLENGES OF MY CHARACTER IS SETTING DOWN REAL ROOTS AND
FOUNDATIONS IN LIFE
ALL I CAN
BE IS JACKIE BROWN AND KNOW ONE ELSE.
LIKE I
STATED BEFORE A NEW ME.....
1. I AM NOT
LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP IN AFRICA
2.
NOT INTERESTED IN NO BOY
TOY
3. DEFINITELY NOT
INTERESTED IN SOMEONE'S ELSE PROPERTY.. CAN'T STAND
SHARING...
4. NOT LOOKING FOR A
BOOTY CALL....JUST FOR MY SOULMATE
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THOSE OF YOU OUT
THERE ON BLACKPLANET...THAT DON'T WANT TO POST A PICTURE..THE WAY I
TAKE IT.....MEANS THAT SOME OF YOU ARE INVOLVE/MARRIED......COME ON
IF I CAN PUT MY UGLY MUG UP HERE FOR THE ENTIRE WORLD TO
SEE....WHY CAN'T YOU??
HUH???...MMMMMM... I THOUGHT SO.... HEY YOU NEVER KNOW...THERE ARE
PEOPLE WHO LIKE UGLY, YOU NEVER CAN TELL......EVERY BODY DESERVE TO
BE LOVE...THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYBODY...GOD MADE IT
THAT WAY...... 
MY POSITIVE TRAITS ARE THAT I AM
DETERMINE, SELF CONFIDENCE...DON'T NEED NO ONE TO TELL ME I LOOK
GOOD BECAUSE I HAVE A VERY HIGH SELF-ESTEEN, INCLUDING BEING
LOVING, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHETIC, COMPASSIONATE, AM ORGANIZED,
COOPERATIVE AND TO MENTION
TRUSTWORTHY.....
 
THERE ARE TIMES
THAT I AM MOODY,
I HAVE A LITTLE STUBBORNESS IN
ME...HEY I AM A TAURUS OK...... I HATE LIERS, SELFISH PEOPLE,
DECIETFUL PEOPLE, CHEATER AND EVERYTHING THAT IS NEGATIVE ABOUT
A PERSON. LIKEÂ ME FOR WHO I AM...
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK THE ONES THAT
TOOK THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE AND I HOPE THAT YOU ENJOYED YOUR
STAY IN MY HOME.....COME BACK AND SEE ME SOMETIMES
AND WHILE U
HERE
AND THANK'S YOU
FOR
