Many people counted me out early on in life...told me I would die in the streets...i`d never amount to anything much...I even had a cop tell me I wouldn`t live past the age of 25!
Well, I`m 37...own a business...and I wonder what that cop is doing with HIS life right about now?!
I dedicate this page to you Det. Beavers...
EXTREME SUCCESS!
That`s my life`s philosophy. My goal is to pack as many lifetimes into this one life as I can! When I die, I want to die empty; nothing left in me to do.
I'm everything you could ever want or dream of in a Man...Then some. I'll challenge you, intrigue you, make you smile, make you cry, piss you off, turn you the fvck on, make love to your soul, and tear that a$$ up from behind like a beast...when the mood is right. I'm like the illest, meanest roller coaster ride: I'll take you to the highest heights, and with you explore the lowest lows. Not to worry though: that's what makes the best roller coasters 'the best'...it's the thrill baby!
I can't promise you I'll always be a perfect gentleman: I can be rude and hood on one hand, yet put on a suit and kick it with the corporate crowd. I'm everything and nothing at all: I'm alpha, omega, and all points in between; yet I still lift my eyes to heaven and thank the good Lord for His manifold blessings.
In essence...I'm a Man.
I'm smooth as butter, yet hard as concrete; I'm sweet as honey, yet tough as bear meat.
I won't sweat you, I won't always agree with you; and I damn sure won't stalk you; but I'll push you and challenge you to be the best you can be. When you shine, I shine through you; meaning it's my good pleasure to see you be the best you can be. I will elevate you, teach you, instruct you, encourage you...and listen to you. I'll be the sun that gives light to your moon; and together we'll make this world a brighter place than it was before we found it. That is, IF you're my lady...
But only the best need apply...because IF you get me, you're getting the best. I don't own a car at the moment, because I'm saving up to buy myself a house. A car will come in due time. I do drive a utility work van, which I mostly use for work. I own it outright; no banks, no notes. If this is something you have a problem with, thats YOUR problem to deal with! I make no apologies for my decision. I have my own place, where I spend my time pursuing my passions in writing and reading interesting, intriguing books. When I'm not at home you can usually find me in a bookstore, soaking up good knowledge. Or on a weekend you can catch me in a lounge somewhere listening to some good music, sipping on some fine cognac.
I'm a father to my children, a man who's about his business...But don't get it twisted: there's plenty room in my world for the right woman.
I just recently got out of a 'situation', so not 'looking' for anything right now, other than friendly vibes and good conversation. Whatever happens from there happens. But if you're interested in knowing what I like in a woman, here it is:
WHAT I WANT IN A WOMAN
I want a woman who doesn`t NEED me to take care of her, but won`t mind if i do;
Someone to be the care-taker of our home without thinking its a demeaning task;
someone who can accept the fact that i`m a take charge kind of man who makes a decision then moves quickly on it;
someone willing to be my biggest, loudest cheerleader...with her encouragement and my drive we can reach our dreams in no time!
Someone who won`t try to stifle my ambition;
someone who will never try to use sex as a weapon to manipulate me; (HUGE turn-off)
someone with drive and ambition of her own;
someone who knows and is secure in her proper role as a woman, and respects mines as a man;
someone who can work at the office from 9 to 5, and still make me feel like i`m her priority in life...i`ll never get in the way of your dreams or goals. i`ll only enhance them with my own;
someone who can ride me like a wild mustang from dusk til dawn, then enjoy a sweet breakfast with me after wards;
someone who is as interested in my interests as she is with her own;
someone who can love my children as her own, and if she has any won`t stop me from disciplining her kids like i do mines;
preferably, someone who has a wonderful relationship with her father or father-figure...
Someone who doesn't allow her schooling get in the way of your education...
someone who can be a good example for my two daughters to emulate...they have a mother, but in order for us(u and i) to work you have to be an example of class around them;
someone who doesn`t think God is a spare tire to pull out only during emergencies;
someone who can wear the sexiest underware beneath her clothing, and does it because she knows it turns me on!
A woman I can share sexual desires physically, mentally, verbally and spiritually. Someone I can just have fun and be myself with.
And there you have it.
If you`re interested in knowing more about me, leave a note and we`ll continue this conversation later.
