White_Choco_Late Find me on myspace or facebook....never here anymore!! - September 30, 2010 add/view comments (0) |
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Wats Good BP...To be honest wit ya..Im probably one of the realist chics you will eva meet...I dont have time for drama...If I have to argue wit ya...I just dont need ya in my life because life is way to short to be unhappy...I guess thats why im still single...Im not lookin for someone that already has a chic....Cause one thing for certain and two things for sure...I demand to be #1 in my mans life and will never accept #2 for the exception of God, his family and his children!!! I was taught by a very wise woman to never settle for less...I have made some really big changes this year and will continue to make changes...Ya'all im not here to be ya bootie call or one night stand or ya freak on the side...Im only lookin for genuine people lookin for genuine friends...Dont get me wrong...I am lQQin for MY king....just not sure that he is on the internet...LOL...So with that bein said...feel free to holla at me anytime...If you have yahoo messanger you can contact me there as well...just let me know who you are an that you are from here...my sn is uh_oooh_oreooo....XoXo...Mz.Ka y Kay MY LESSONS LEARNED: Everything that glitters ain't gold and everything sweet just ain't suga...That's what my granmomma used to say...I thought that I understood those concepts until my last relationship ended...Now I can honestly say after all this time i finally get it...I have learned a lot of hard lessons in life over the years but I can say that the past year has taught me a lot....Loving someone to much just isn't good for you....You can put all of you into someone but if they don't want the same thing as you or they just aren't ready to make the same steps you are no matter how hard we try it just isn't gonna work...My relationships are already filled with adversity so the littlest things can make a big difference....Financial status, having three children and not being able to have anymore, having been married, the life that I came from, to only dating outside my race (just to name a few of those adversities)...All of these things I am always upfront about but in the end it seems like they always become a problem no matter how much they say it doesn't....I have come to the conclusion that you can't keep a man that isn't ready to be kept so there isn't any sense in trying....Sometimes we just gotta let it go....Sure it may hurt a lil but time heals all wounds...and if we really evaluate things there are always lessons to be learned... It's up to us to figure out what those are... learn from them...and hopefully never make the same mistakes again... Is there someone out there for me...I don't know...Am I okay with the fact that there may not be...Of course I am...Am I open to a new relationship of course sometime in the future but I'm not obsessed with lookin....I feel like if its meant to be it will be....I will be blessed with that someone if its in the plan set for me....God has a plan for each and everyone of us its just up to us to let him do his work....Never be obsessed with the past and always look for the future...because tomorrow is always gonna be a brighter day.... |
