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  • Here For:

    Friends, Casual Dating, Networking

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Age:

    33

  • Location:

    Chicago, IL

  • Race:

    Black/African American, Hispanic/Latino

  • Zodiac:

    Cancer


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    White_Smoke

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Welcome to my piece of the planet, come on inside and make yourselves comfortable.

 

I'm pretty much laid back, I like to laugh and enjoy being around warm easy going people. I like curling up under the covers when its snowing or raining outside, laughing so hard my stomach and sides hurt, putting my fingers in a man's hair (especially if he has loose curls or better yet locs!), savoring a really good piece of chocolate, a pair of strong hands rubbing my feet, watching animated TV, beating everyone I know at Connect 4, playing Sudoku, reading a book so good you forgo sleep and food, the laughter of children, etc.

 

 

 

Captivated by sweet, sentimental types that value family; and happy people -- those who laugh at the littlest thing and smile a lot. Yes I'm a sucker for a gorgeous smile. Highly attracted to artists, musicians, writers and other creative free spirits who are vibrant, quick witted, passionate and resourceful.

 

 


 

 

 

Excerpt from 1984

"From where Winston stood it was just possible to read, picked out on its white face in elegant lettering, the three slogans of the Party:

WAR IS PEACE

FREEDOM IS SLAVERY

IGNORANCE IS STRENGTH."

  

 

 

Because ... what we look like is more important than what we do and if we get raped it's our fault and if we get beaten we must have provoked it and if we raise our voices we're nagging b*tches and if we enjoy sex we're nymphos and if we don't we're frigid and if we love women it's because we can't get a "real" man and if we ask our doctor too many questions we're neurotic and/or pushy and if we expect childcare we're selfish and if we stand up for our rights we're aggressive and "unfeminine" and if we don't we're typical weak females and if we want to get married we're out to trap a man and if we don't we're unnatural ... ~Author unknown, quoted in The Torch, 14 September 1987

 

 

"Hell Is for Children" by Pat Benatar

 

They cry in the dark, so you can't see their tears

They hide in the light, so you can't see their fears

Forgive and forget, all the while

Love and pain become one and the same

In the eyes of a wounded child

   


   

 

 

"Long Walk" by Jill Scott

You're here, I'm pleased, I really dig your company

Your style, your smile, your peace mentality

Lord, have mercy on me, I was blind, now I can see

What a king's supposed to be, baby I feel free, come on and go with me

Let's take a long walk around the park after dark

Find a spot for us to spark, conversation, verbal elation, stimulation

Share our situations, temptations, education, relaxations

Elevations, maybe we can talk about something the entire day

Or maybe we can see a movie

Or maybe we can see a play on Saturday

And feel the breeze and listen to a symphony

Or maybe chill and just be, or maybe

Maybe we can take a cruise and listen to the Roots

Or maybe eat some passion fruit

Or maybe cry to the blues

Or maybe we could just be silent

 

 

 

 

SHE MAY BE RIGHT FOR YOU IF...

  

...You're turned on by sweet, movie-worthy romance, like slow kisses and crazy-great compliments.

 ...You deal with problems by honestly addressing them and taking emotions into consideration. She's a philosopher at heart, and even if you two don't agree in the end, you'll learn tons about each other during your in-depth discussions.

 

 Atmosphere matters to this sensualist, so find a spot with a romantic vibe (try a botanical garden or outdoor jazz concert) for the real highlight: your ever-intensifying one-on-one bond.

 

She feels most energized when she's engaging her mind, so try watching a documentary, seeing an interesting exhibit, or taking a class, such as sushi making.

 

 What are the top qualities you look for in a person?

  • Emotionally Mature (Self aware, Self disciplined)
  • Strong Sense of Integrity
  • Happy Disposition (likes to laugh)
  • Intellectually Curious
  • Giving/Protective Demeanor.

   

  

 

 

"Just Like Water" by Lauryn Hill

 

Melting down the walls of inhibition

Evaporating all of my fears

Baptizing me into complete submission

Dissolving my condition with his tears

 

Coursing through my senses, he's prevailing

Floating through the space of my design

Drowning me to find my inside sailing

Drinking in the mainstream of his mind

   

He's pouring out his soul to me for hours and hours

Drawing out my nature with his hands

Yearning, I'm so thirsty for his power

Burning to be worthy of his land

 

 

"Want" by Disturbed

 

Quivering now, shivering now, withering

Your mind won't let you say that you're

Wondering now, pondering now, hungering

Won't let you say that you're

 

Questioning, wavering, weakening

Your mind won't let you say that you're

Hearkening, listening, heeding me now

Won't let you say that you want me

 

Savor the addiction

Savor the affliction*

Savor me

 

* af·flic·tion noun.

1. a state of pain, distress, or grief; misery: 2. a cause of mental or bodily pain, as sickness, loss, calamity, or persecution.

 

ad·dic·tion noun

...a habit, practice or substance that is psychologically or physically habit-forming to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma.

 

 

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