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  • Member Since:

    Feb 22, 2007

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Age:

    34

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    Sep 06

  • Location:

    Sherman Oaks, CA

  • Race:

    Black/African American

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    Other

  • Zodiac:

    Gemini


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The Sun Shines

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The Sun Shines

I didn't realize that I'd caused so much self-damage.

Imagine...

Knowing what the sun looks like, only from memory. I remember it being round, and bright. Warm....on my skin. Warm in my hair. Causing my eyes to squint sometimes. I know it's still there, because I've seen it, and can vouch for its existence.

It's been years since I've seen the sun.

I've been covered in the muck of my life - covered initially by others, then finally...slathering... (continue reading)

It's been a while, but the Blog continues with "The Just-Wanna-F*ck-but-Pretend-I-Want-More's"

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The Just-Wanna-F*ck-but-Pretend-I-Want-More's

Now, these types are annoying, for different reasons.

Here is the difference: I don't mind sex, for sex only reasons. I DO, however, mind people insulting my intelligence - in ANY area.

I actually think it's cool for someone who is single to have their fun by dating around....playin the "field"...playing the "game"...that's why they're single, right? The point is to have fun, and this is perfectly allowable, as... (continue reading)

The Don't-Want-Her-to-Take-My-Money Penny-Pinchers

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Before I get hot and heavy into this one, I must say that MANY of the men who feel this way, do so for legitimate reason! I am sorry, but there are just some sorry a$$ women out there that have created these monsters, and made it really hard for the women who are NOT all about the shallow gold-diggin....

 

But...carrying on....

 

Athough this is a difficult subject to talk about, without the possibility of offending someone, I have to say it: Men...not... (continue reading)

Tormented (poem)

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Damn you.
I dont want to fall in love.
So what is it that I have to do
To prevent from slippin?
To preserve my vulnerability?
Must I beg you to leave me alone,
When really, I want you to bug me endlessly?
Should I ignore you,
Even if I call you over and over again?
How about I clown you, and tease and joke,
To make light out of this f*cking serious situation...
I dont want to fall in love.
How many times do I... (continue reading)

Love and Appreciation...

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I need to break the negative monotony, and express my POSITIVE feelings about men. All the negatives are bringing me down a little, and even though I will continue to write about them (I feel it's important for me to point them out), I still have so much love and appreciation for the good guys, who need and deserve some attention and recognition, too!

I love you men!!! *smile* I think you are such beautiful creations; strong, mighty, gorgeous and cuddly! From the tops of your... (continue reading)

The Just-Don't-Get-It's....

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What can I say? These men here....just...don't...get it! No matter how much you lay out it, spell it out...sound it out - they just don't get it. They will never get it. These types, unfortunately, you'll have no other choice than to just drop and ignore, because they refuse to understand you. Period.

Example:
Man and woman go out - once, or a few times. Whatever. For some reason, the two just don't mesh, and things aren't flowing, but the guy is still very... (continue reading)

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OK, I guess I should write something....

Please forgive me if I come across a little blunt...I try to be simple and honest, not offensive. I am a single mother....and for that, I am not looking for a relationship. Although I do date occassionally, I'm not here to find someone to date either. I like interacting with folks....and sometimes, just people-watching, period. So much is learned by observing....and interactions and curiosities help inspire me to write.


Please don't be offended if I do not respond to you. Please also do not be offended if I flirt with you. *smile*

Let's just enjoy the possibilities and anticipation.....



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