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Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.
It turns what we have into enough, and more.
It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.
It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today,
and creates a vision for tomorrow.

Welcome Everybody!

I hope you'll enjoy the words of wisdom on my page. Wisdom is the sharing
of wise experiences and knowledge, but a lot of it is common sense.
The difference is how you apply this common sense.
We all have the ability to keep on going even when we face
challenges in our lives, but basically it comes down to your attitude.
You can have a positive attitude towards life, or a negative attitude.
You can focus on the good or you can focus on the bad.
Keeping a positive mental attitude is one of the keys to success.
But the choice is always up to you!

I 'm not here to find me a Lover, Splakavelli, Bootycaller, or
whatever other word used in the world of the G(ame) L(oving) P(layers)
...but... Dear G.L.P., please don't be offended by my words.
Live and let live!!!! So ENJOY your game...! But with those who can appreciate it !!!

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

Sow an act, and you reap a habit; sow a habit, and you reap a character;
sow a character, and you reap a destiny.

Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish
a man's growth without destroying his roots.

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.

Remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Do not condemn the judgment of another because it differs from your own.
You may both be wrong.

I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn
how to do it.

Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end.
It's not a day when you lounge around doing nothing;
it's when you had everything to do, and you've done it.

The greatest good you can do for another
is not just to share your riches
but to reveal to him his own

I am only one, but I am one.
I cannot do everything, but I can do something.
And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do.

Become a possibilitarian.
No matter how dark things seem to be, or actually are
raise your sights and see possibilities, always see them
for they're always there.

If you have no will to change it, you have no right to criticize it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

If you love somebody, let them go.
If they return, they were always yours.
If they don't, they never were...

Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without
and know we cannot live within.

It is the greatest of all mistakes to do nothing
because you can only do little ... do what you can!

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch,
a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment,
or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential
to turn a life around.

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young,
compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving
and tolerant of the weak and strong.
Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.

See everything; overlook a great deal; correct a little.

Enjoy when you can, and endure when you must.

You can tell more about a person by what he says about others
than you can by what others say about him.

Arguing with a fool proves there are two.

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change,
the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.

The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice that which we are for what we could become.

You know a dream is like a river, ever changing as it flows.
And a dreamer's just a vessel that must follow where it goes.
Trying to learn from what's behind you and never knowing what's in store
makes each day a constant battle just to stay between the shores.
And I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Like a bird upon the wind, these waters are my sky.
I'll never reach my destination if I never try,
So I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Too many times we stand aside and let the water slip away.
To what we put off 'til tomorrow has now become today.
So don't you sit upon the shore and say you're satisfied.
Choose to chance the rapids and dare to dance the tides

Any change, any loss, does not make us victims.
Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't
prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented
with and moving on.
No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you
can always do something.
You always have a choice and the choice can be power.

How do I change?
If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labour.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my emotions.

Destiny is not a matter of chance,
it is a matter of choice.
It is not a thing to be waited for,
it is a thing to be Achieved!

To the question of your life you are the answer,
and to the problems of your life you are the solution.

What you think, you create.
What you create, you become.
What you become, you express.
What you express, you experience.
What you experience, you are.
What you are, you think......

'There is a law in psychology that if you form a picture in your mind of what you would like to be, and you keep and hold that picture there long enough, you wil soon become exactly as you have been thinking'. (William James)

Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail.

At the end, it`s not the words of our enemies that you will remember but the silence of your friends that you will remember.(Dr. Martin Luther King)

I asked God for Strength...
And He gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked God for Wisdom...
And He gave me problems to solve.
I asked God for Prosperity...
And He gave me brain and brawn to work.
I asked God for Courage...
And He gave me danger to overcome.
I asked God for Love...
And He gave me troubled people to help.
I asked God for Favors...
And He gave me opportunities.
I received nothing I wanted...
And I received everything I needed.

What we are is God's gift to us. What we become is our gift to God.

Know that it takes years to build up trust, and only suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.....

Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game..

Perfer et obdura; dolor hic tibi proderit olim

And finally I would like to end with a quote from Anthony Robbins:
Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything.
Take care of yourself, your family and your friends.
Have fun, be crazy, be weird.
Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway,
so you might as well enjoy the process.
Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes,
find the cause of your problem and eliminate it.
Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.

Carpe Diem! Xanella