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  • Member Since:

    May 20, 2002

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    52

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Location:

    Grasonville, MD

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Aquarius


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I GOT YOUR BACK.....COVER ME



"THE GREATEST THING THAT YOU WILL EVER LEARN IS JUST TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN"

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In the Midst of it all there is a Blessing.
"An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips." --- Proverbs 24:26
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To the woman in my life>>>>>>
All I want is to love you for the rest of my life ....
To wake up every morning with you by my side,knowing that no matter what happens,I`ll be able to come home to your loving arms.
All I want is to share everything with you ...To talk to you about your ideas ,your dreams,the little everyday things that make us laugh, and the not-so-little things that we can`t help worrying about.All I want is to give you my Love ...
as a place you can always come to for acceptance or the simple comfort that silence brings when things left
unspoken can still be understood.
All I want is to grow old with you ...
To watch our life unfold,our dreams ,one by one ,come true
ALL I WANT IS TO LOVE YOU FOREVER..>>>>>& gt;>>>>>>> ;>>>>>>>& gt;>>>>>>> ;>>>>>>>
A wise woman once said to me, "There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One of these is roots; the other
wings.
--Hodding Carter
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"The Sweet is much sweetier,if you have tasted the bitter"
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"THE ULTIMATE MEASURE OF A MAN IS NOT WHERE HE STANDS IN THE MOMENTS OF COMFORT AND CONVENIENCE,BUT WHERE HE STANDS AT TIMES OF CHALLENGE AND CONTROVERSY" MLK,Jr.
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The real purpose of my life is to find God within my own mind and heart,and to help my fellow men.I thank my father for each experience that helps me to surrender myself to His Will.For only as I lose myself in the consciousness of His Great Presence can His Plan for my life be fulfilled.
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Peace of mind is important to a happy heart, and romance lasts longer when you have both.
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COMMITMENT
Anyone can get excited and enthusiastic,given a sufficient amount of stimulation or inducement. Excitement will get you going,but it is not enough to keep you going. Excitement,by its very nature,wears off.
Beyond the inital excitement,S u c c e s s requires commitment. Commitment keeps you going long after the novelty has worn off. Excitement begins the process of achievement. Commitment sees it through to completion.
Excitement is a reaction. Commitment is an intentional decision,s u c c e s s occurs when you`re able to transform the energy of your excitement into a soild and lasting commitment.That`s not easy.It takes effort. It takes dedication and focus. It demands a level of motivation that goes beyond the thrill of the moment. To be committed ,you must find a personally meaningful,driving reason to support your commitment,and then continually remind yourself of that reason.
Excitement is so satisfying and energizing because of the promise it makes. Commitment is what actually delivers on that promise.
U feel me?
^^^The choices we make,dictate the life we lead^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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KEEP YOUR VISION STRONG
It is all too easy to accept the limits placed on you by other people
or by random circumstances. Easy,yes ,but where does that get you? Do you want your vision to be eroded by the small-mindedness of those around you? What is your purpose,anyway--to just get along,or to make a real difference?
You are truly blessed with a magnificent, powerful,unique life.There are so many places you can go,so many wonderful things you can do. In all of history,there has never been anyone who can equal you. Keep your vision strong. Set yourown limits. Set your own standards,and set them high.This is your life we`re talking about. It`s worth every effort you can give to it.
A FEW WORDS TO THE WOMEN:
A woman who knows what to say is a mighty power force.She can influence her Husband,not only can she strengthenhim and give him courage,she can motivate him.
Men react to PRAISE as GOD reacts to PRAISE.
Men flee from contention but draws strength from the woman who encourages him and affirms him.
If a man finally gets the courage to open up to you,you must be careful not to use his moment of openness against him later. If you do ,he WILL never trust you with his innermost thought again.
And lastly ,you actually train others how to treat you by how you treat yourself.
This is just food for thought.....use it as you desirer....JR

^^^^^If you can not LOVE unconditionally,than don`t bother^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^
MATURITY
Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violence or destruction.
Maturity is patience. It is the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of long-term gain.
Maturity is perseverance, the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite of heavy opposition and discouraging setbacks. Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or collapse.
Maturity is humility. It is being big enough to say, I was wrong. And, when right, the mature person need not experience the satisfaction of saying, I told you so.
Maturity is the ability to make a decision and follow through. The immature spend their lives exploring endless possibilities and then do nothing.
Maturity means dependability, keeping one s word and coming through in a crisis.

Maturity is the art of living in peace with what we cannot change, the courage to change what we know shouldbe changed, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Everyone does not arrive at same place at the same time.ALWAYS

I NEED A RIDE OR DIE CHICK>>>>>>& gt;>>>

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