_Phynesse_ IM NOT HERE SEARCHING, I PROVIDE COMFORT TO MY OWN STATUS.... - November 29, 2010 add/view comments (0)

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... The beginning of Love is to let those we Love be perfectly themselves and not twist them with our own image-- otherwise, we Love only the reflection of ourselves in them... The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most out of everything that comes their way...

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Hello to everyone here on BlackPlanet. I am "Phynesse" and I just want to take the time to welcome you to my page and into my atmosphere... 

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We make hundreds of choices in our lives. We may wish we can change other peoples' choices but, we cannot make choices for others. We always do what ywe want to do. This is true with every act. You may say that you had to do something, or that you were forced to, but actually, whatever you do, you do by choice. Only you have the power to choose for yourself. When it comes right down to it, everything we do hinges on one simple yet complex, six-letter word... “choice”. Knowing how to make good choices determines a lot in life. When to go, when to stay…when to stop, when to start…when to push, when to pull back… when to rush, when to slow down… when to say yes, when to say no…when to believe, when to doubt…when to spend, when to save…when to fly high, when to stay low…these are a gift and a curse all wrapped up in one. When it comes right down to it, there are no guarantees in making choices. You simply weigh the pros and cons, listen to your intuition, and do the best you can. In the end, there really isn't any such thing as a "bad" choice, because hopefully you will learn something from each one you make.

So with that being said... Yes, life can be hard but always strive to make good choices BP, and learn from the bad ones.... Always be the change you desire to see, stop looking for it!