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This is little i have in mind that want to express to you what I desire in a woman and what I do not desire. First I am a serious Christian man and I am guided by my relationship with Jesus Christ the son of (Our Almighty God). I say that up front because my faith is very important to me.
I will touch on that more lately. So I want a lady of faith who has principles and values. We have all made mistakes in life but need to be guided by something. i want a partner in life some one to care for someone I can respect. I want a Best friend someone I can share anything with and see what that can lead us too next.
I need a partner not a judge or someone to tell me what to do. I had a loving and caring father who died years ago and gone may he rest in perfect peace and I do seek to replace him. I do not need a woman to cook and clean if that was my desire I would hire a maid. I believe that household chores should be by a couple. I can cook and do laundry sweep mop and all that so if you are interested in a man to respect you and share life with you let's talk...
Am Alfred, widowed with one son, single.I am 54 years of age., black hair and brown eyes...I'm born and raised in NY but I relocate to chicago when I got married with my Ex wife who has pass away 10year ago .
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to start with a right person. I am an honest, loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous...
I am someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans, drinking a beer as in a black silk dress, sipping a glass of wine. I like the outdoors as I like to just stay at home. Hang around the house getting my hands dirty in the yard. Love to entertain... I am generally trying to live a somehow healthy lifestyle, so i do take some exercise by jogging, 3-4 days in a week and eating healthy food in order to sustain my natural healthy living so please trust me,
I love sweets and pastries such as ice cream, biscuits, cheeps, fun ice, fun pop, yorgurt and fun milk, but try not to over do it in my life since it entails sicknesses, I do also have some funs such as fishing, boating, cooking, going to beach and I do want to participate in all this funs with the person in my life..
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work since we all do believe in Almighty God the savior oops so you do? As I mentioned earlier,
I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage her to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better.
I'm not one who cheats in a relationship, one woman is enough, I don't have the time or energy to juggle more than one at the same time lol. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working...
I do not expect a woman to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and cleaning this are also responsibilities of man and woman, I believe there is give and take in a relationship but am not here for one's funds or materials or other things since all this are not included in a relationship,
But am here looking for some one honest,truthful,God fearing and good listener, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that'll I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return.
Everybody do not want to meet someone who may think of taking advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on him or her under false pretenses, I do never lie,deceive,play games or cheat in my life and never wants to be cheated,diceive,lie or been played games with in my life.
I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning.
In relationship I do believe there should be trust, believe and understanding because this are all the most important things relationship have to go with and without all this between the two couples I don't think the relationship will work and last forever which I do always pray to Almighty God to have such a person who have all this in his heart in my life...
With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 54 years old and that you are somewhere Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other by Almighty God's name..
Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding to you?
I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human beings with the same red blood in out bodies, we all make mistakes in life and I want to learn more about life in a relationship more and more), I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting his Or her time or getting his or her feelings hurt.
I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.
About the Person am looking for I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsible, respectful, can take care of themselves, and who is employed. special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime of passion. and also knows how to have fun but can be serious when needed .
So only serious inquiries will be accepted. I hope to hear from you soon I'm looking for a soul-mate...a best friend for life! Someone I could talk to about anything....A good listener, smart and funny! I'd give the same to the ONE!! Who knows - may be you are my twin-soul.hope to hear from u soon or u can contact me on yahoo fredisco93@yahoo.com.