I'M TEDDY, HELLO
I'M A GROWN MAN. WHERE ARE THE GROWN WOMEN? IF YOU HAVE SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MUSIC PLAYING ON YOUR PAGE, YOU'RE NOT A GROWN WOMAN. IF YOU HAVE SEXUALLY EXPLICIT PICTURES ON YOUR PAGE, YOU'RE DEFINITELY NOT A LADY. WHEN I WAS A CHILD, I DID THOSE THINGS. NOW THAT I'M A MAN, I PUT AWAY CHILDISH THINGS.
IT'S GOOD THAT WE HAVE A NEW FIRST LADY WHO'S TRULY A LADY. SHE HAS HER OWN HAIR, HER OWN EYES, NO TATOOS, EDUCATED, AND HAS PLENTY OC CLASS. ARE THERE ANY MORE SISTERS LIKE HER?
(NO I WAS NOT RAISED BY MY GRANDMOTHER. SHE'S JUST ONE OF MY HEROES) I REMEMBER MY GRANDMOTHER MAGGIE JONES. SHE WAS A LADY OF PURE ELEGANCE AND GRACE. SHE WAS A MODEL AT BULLOCKS WILSHIRE DEPARTMENT STORE IN LOS ANGELES DURING THE 40'S.. SHE HAD TO ENTER THROUGH THE BACK DOOR AND WASN'T ALLOWED TO TOUCH THE MERCHANDISE EXCEPT WHAT SHE HAD TO MODEL THAT DAY. STILL SHE CARRIED HERSELF WITH GREAT DIGNITY. SHE WAS A LADY WHO NEVER WORE A WIG OR WEAVE. SHE NEVER MARKED HER BODY WITH TATOOS AND TAUGHT YOU DIDN'T NEED TO MARK YOUR BODY TO BE BEAUTIFUL. BUT, TO ACCEPT THE BEAUTY THAT GOD GAVE YOU.. SHE DIDN'T HAVE MUCH EDUCATION BUT, SHE WAS VERY KNOWLEDGABLE AND ENCOURAGED US ALL TO GET A COLLEGE EDUCATION. SHE CAME FROM COLUMBIA, MISSOURI BUT, TRAVELLED THE WORLD. SHE ACCEPTED AGE WITH GRACE AND DIGNITY. SHE DIDN'T TRY TO BE SOMEONE YOUNGER. NO MID-LIFE CRISIS. NO SEXY CLOTHES OR EXPOSED BODY PARTS. SHE WAS A DEVOTED WIFE UNTIL THE END AND NEVER CHASED AFTER YOUNGER MEN. SHE WAS A SPIRITUAL PERSON WHO TAUGHT US ABOUT GOD AND TREATING PEOPLE RIGHT. A WOMAN WHO WAS RESPECTED BY ALL. THE NEIGHBORHOOD GANG-BANGERS WOULD BEAT YOU IF THEY HEARD YOU CUSSED IN FRONT OF HER OR DISRESPECTED HER IN ANY WAY. SHE WAS CALLED MISS JONES BY EVERYONE.SHE LOVED EVERYONE. IF A CRACK-HEAD PASSED BY HER HOUSE, SHE WOULD OFFER A PLATE AND SOME LOVE. SHE REMINDED US THAT HE WAS STILL SOMEONE'S CHILD, BROTHER, FRIEND OR EVEN HUSBAND AND WAS LOVED BY SOMEONE. SHE COULD COOK A BEAUTIFUL MEAL AND ENJOYED FEEDING HER FAMILY A FRESH MEAL EVERYDAY. SHE COULD GO FROM EATING A CHITTLIN DINNER TO KNOWING THE MENU AT PERINO'S. SHE WAS A GRANMOTHER WHO TAUGHT HER GRANDCHILDREN WISDOM AND HOW TO LIVE RIGHT. SHE DIDN'T HANG OUT IN THE CLUBS OR IN THE STREETS. SHE DIDN'T DRINK AND QUIT SMOKING WHEN SHE REALIZED IT WAS BAD FOR HER HEALTH. I WOULD LOVE TO FIND A WOMAN LIKE HER. DOES A WOMAN LIKE HER EVEN EXIST ANY MORE?
PLEASE, BEFORE YOU RESPOND, I`M NOT ALONE OR LONELY. I`M NOT A CASE FOR PITY EITHER.I`M VERY STABLE FINANCIALLY.I AM ONE OF THE FEW BLACK MEN WHO BELIEVE IN SAVINGS, IRA`S, CD`S AND CHECKING ACCOUNTS . AND GAY PEOPLE I`M NOT TRYING TO JOIN YOU IN HELL`S FIRE. AND YES, THE FELLA AT THE BOTTOM OF MY PAGE IS MY PRINCE. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. MANY MORE FATHERS NEED TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND BE THE FATHER YOUR KIDS WANT AND NEED YOU TO BE.
WELL, I MOVED HERE TO HOUSTON FROM NEW ORLEANS. NO, I DIDN`T LOSE ANYTHING IN MY HOUSE.THANK GOD. I DID HOWEVER LOSE MY BUSINESS, TEMPORARILY. I BELIEVE IN A YEAR`S TIME IT WILL BE BACK UP. THAT ALLOWS ME TO TAKE A YEAR-LONG VACATION FROM LIFE. ISN`T THAT EXCITING? I DID, HOWEVER, LOSE THE LIFE THAT I CAME TO LOVE IN NEW ORLEANS. I`M GONNA REALLY MISS NEW ORLEANS. I`M GONNA TRY TO GO BACK IN NOVEMBER, 2010. I`M GONNA MAKE THE BEST OF EVERYTHING IN HOUSTON. I COULD USE SOME FRIENDS HERE.
about me. i`m a single black male.41. i never drank, smoked, or did drugs. i try not to curse. very much a gentleman. i love going to church and is very active in church. i`m a degreed professional with advanced degrees but very down to earth. i love black college football. i played it and can`t get enough of it.i love to travel. i also love weekend getaways. i`m a very romantic man. i love giving flowers, massages and sweet surprises. we black men have to treat our black women as the queens they are. i feel that if your feet hurt, i wanna rub them. if your back hurts, i wanna massage it. i`m 5` 8", 170lbs. and i have to admit, i have a thing for full-figured women.i love me some bbws. it`s a preference, not a fetish. to my sexy slim and beautiful mid-sized women, i love y`all also. that`s the beauty of black women, y`all come in all beautiful shapes, sizes and skin tones. i like a women who can use chopsticks one night, then use her fingers the next. a women who is not scared to try new thingsand explore new ideas. i can`t stand women who smoke. would prefer someone who doesn`t drink. i don`t do either at all, never have.
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS PAGE WAS ORIGINALLY WRITTEN IN 2003. I HAVE BOUNCED BACK TREMENDOUSLY SINCE THEN.I`M DOING OKAY. PLEASE READ WHAT IT SAYS. I`M NOT ALONE AND LONELY. I JUST DON`T WANNA DIE THAT WAY.
(this was written 6 years ago) WELL, I GUESS PEOPLE WONDER HOW I CAME UPON THE NAME ALONE AND LONELY. WELL, FOR STARTERS, I`VE BEEN GOING THROUGH A LOT LATELY IN MY LIFE. IT STARTED WHEN I LOST MY MOTHER IN APRIL. THEN, I LOST MY BUSINESS, NOW I`M JUST TRYING TO STAY AFLOAT. I DO BELIEVE IN GOD. SO YOU DON`T NEED TO PREACH TO ME!!! I LIVE IN NEW ORLEANS WITH NO FAMILY CLOSE BY. I`M FROM LOS ANGELES. WHAT I NEED IS COMFORT. HEY, ADAM HAD GOD HIMSELF TO TALK TO AND HE STILL WAS LONELY FOR COMPANIONSHIP. PERSONALLY, I DON`T THINK I`M A BAD LOOKING PERSON. I`M A BORN ROMANTIC AT HEART WITH A LOT OF LOVE AND AFFECTION TO GIVE. I`LL ADMIT, I USED TO BE A PLAYER. BUT, I CAME TO REALIZE THAT THE ONLY ONE I WAS PLAYING WAS MYSELF. THANK YOU E. LYNN HARRIS AND YOUR BOOKS FOR SHOWING ME THE LIGHT ON THE TRUE NEED FOR LOVE. NO!!!! I`M NOT GAY. JUST LIKE HOW HIS BOOKS CAN SHOW US WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO HAVE GOOD FRIENDS AND SOMEONE TO LOVE. I FIND THAT I`M SO LONELY. I`M TIRED OF BEING BY MYSELF. I ESPECIALLY LEARNED THIS WHEN MY MOTHER DIED AND I HAD NO ONE TO HELP ME GET THROUGH THAT HARD EXPERIENCE. SOMETIMES I THINK IF IT WAS NOT FOR MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD AND HIS SON JESUS, I MIGHT HAVE GIVEN UP. I`M STILL HOLDING ON AND LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO BRING THE SPARKLE BACK INTO MY LIFE. IF YOU`RE INTERESTED IN BEING A "FRIEND"TO A GOOD BROTHER WHO`S GOING THROUGH SOME ROUGH TIMES, PLEASE RESPOND TO ME. I DON`T WANNA DIE "ALONE AND LONELY"!!!!!
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