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  • Member Since:

    January 24, 2001

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    34

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Primary Job:

    Engineering

  • Income:

    $75-100,000

  • Location:

    Atlantic Beach, NY

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Ethnicity:

    Trinidadian

  • Zodiac:

    Libra


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My take on "LIFE"



Sadly, many of us continually postpone our happiness-indefinitely. It is not that we consciously set out to do so, but that we keep convincing ourselves, "Someday I`ll be happy." We tell ourselves we`ll be happy when our bills are paid, when we get out of school, get our first job, a promotion. We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren`t old enough- we`ll be more content when they are. After that, we`re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our lives will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. And on and on and on!

Meanwhile, life keeps moving forward. The truth is, there`s no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It`s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of Richard Carlson`s favorite quotes comes from Alfred D` Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a dept to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.



About Me.... The Brains of the operation.. Bron Steet.. Livin Street... And Will Always Be Street...In the Bar once a week (pool hustle)..In the Club once a week..

B.S. in Electrical Engineering.. Currently a Construction Project Manager Specializing in Hi-End Buildings and Infrastructure..(Building Cities).. Due to the limitations of BP. I had to take down some pic`s of my work (buildings) To put up this scruffy pic of my self ( I know I could have done better but I think showing who I am (hard working) does more justice.. I aint no half-fag cat like what see in the mag`s, and shi%.. but at work I do get down with the T-Anthony and all that suit shi*)...

The building 5-Times SQ... NOt my best work but a project

The last pic 4/23/05 is of me after a generator hoist at NYU... DANM WAS IT COLD AND WET THAT DAY!!!

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