I get it, no one wants a long distant relationship, but there's no guarantee that GOD blessed you and put your sole mate in your back yard. some of us are too lazy to love so how can you commit to someone with that attitude, continuously asking for the right man, or woman. LOL, everyone should be adult on this site so live! Just be cautious because people are crazy.

I live in New Zealand and I've met some lovely men here on BP who if we lived in the same country I would have loved to persue a relationship with....but they aren't here so for me the reason is not just the practicality but moreso the next step in the relationship....A   If the relationship gets serious then someone needs to make the big move and for me, I have my family my daughter here and it would be so difficult to be so far from them especially as we are so tight knit So I'm not keen on gettingA  involved in a long distance relationship knowing that I'm not willing to make that move... J

SMDH thinking about calling in this morning.

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