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THIS IS PART OF AN AD FOR A BOOK THIS GUY WROTE...MY EXACT SITUATION...WHAT SHOULD I HAVE DONE??


Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?... (continue reading)

You know, it's interesting, I thought that when my son's father moved out, it would be a lot easier to get involved with someone new...but it's actually the opposite. Well, maybe not even that, it's just that I don't want to be bothered with all the %#&@$!ery that dating entails.
When two people first meet, they are always on their best behavior and, as we all know, this starts to change over time. Now, I'm not saying that everybody does it (I don't and @ least one of my exes didn't either)... (continue reading)

For the first time, in a loooooooong time, I'm single again. I can't say I'm sad, but I sure can't say I'm happy either. I couldn't cope with all the disrespect floating around in the air, but I do miss my son's father. I guess it's better this way...he's not on my level...he's got so much growing up to do and I've got a bit of work to put into myself now as well. I have to stop showing how much I care. I need to stop letting ppl think my love is unconditional (even though it is). Once I give... (continue reading)