Sometimes I wish I'd been an adult in the sixties, a time when the majority of black men had been real men! The sixties were a time when blacks loved blacks, the best they knew how, despite the fact that white people hated them. Black men tipped their hats to black ladies, our men dressed impeccably, they had a sense of dignity, and they NEVER EVER walked past a black woman without acknowledging them! What happen to those men, those values? Men used to open doors AND actually hold them open... (continue reading)

I've always been a strong advocate for the good ol saying "treat others how you want to be treated". I truly live my life by those words. I dont skip in line unless I want to be skipped. I dont steal unless I want to be stolen from. And I dont curse people out unless I want the same in return. There are certain situations where I'm like "I dont care if this mutha f-cka wants to do it back......but Ima bust his windows out today!"LOL Just joking. But I do understand that... (continue reading)

Many of you have sent me emails with regards to my blog titled "OK, HE'S CHEATING.....SO WHAT?" Apparently that subject hit a soft spot for a lot of you, both male and female. The resounding comment that I've received is "you probably dont know how it feels to be cheated on" or "dont comment until you've experienced it".

I try not to air my dirty laundry but, for this, i'll make an exception. I happen to be in a relationship where infidelity was present.... (continue reading)