babi_d_913 IM BACK!!! hit me up on yahoo messenger...dashorty808 - October 07, 2010 add/view comments (0)

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  • Here For:

    Serious Dating

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    August 14, 2003

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  • Age:

    25

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

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    Administrative and Support Services

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    Leavenworth, KS

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    Black/African American

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    Pisces


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ATTENTION MEN...

 

DO NOT COME ON HERE THINKIN THAT YOU GON GET SOME SEX.. IM NOT ABOUT THAT... YALL CRAZY... AND IF YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND, WIFE WHATEVER PLEASE DO NOT WRITE ME OR MESSAGE ME AND DONT COME ON MY PAGE.. YOU CAN KEEP ALL THAT DRAMA

 

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.

It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

 

I Corinthians 13:4-8

 

 

If I had to explain love in one word it would have to be trust. Trust that he doesnt cheat on you... trust that he doesnt lie to you... trust that he really likes you... trust that he will always be there for you... trust that he can go to a party and not get high or drunk... trust that you dont have to worry about him breaking up with you over a stupid argument... trust that he will stick up for you... trust that he will never fall in love with another girl... trust that he wont get sick of you... trust that he wants you like you want him. So yeah, trust pretty much sums up everything.

 

Glory to God! hello there! Im about 5'5, thick and loving it, stand my own ground, I have a retail background, nursing background (I am a CNA), clerical background. i am in school for SOCIAL WORK. i work a full time job and go to school parttime. i would love it the next guy that comes into my life is somewhat on the same level as me..job.. I am independent and men seem to take advantage of that. Because they see I have a car job and take care of myself .... they think that they can latch on and enjoy the ride.. No sorry boo.... I have had my heart broken before and I don't feel like traveling down that road again.. My special man that I would love to meet one day that has goals, has room for a girlfriend (wife one day), children, the sky is the limit. I'm looking a mature man..not about games and playing around.... I like to go out to the movies, walk around, play video games, sing, dance, music, read, have dinner. I love romantic men. Sweep me off my feet, do things suprisingly. If you mess up don't ask me how to fix it.. You're a grown man you can think for yourself. I am looking for a trustful, committed relationship with a real man. No games played. I am not a gold digger, I see you as a person not someone with money or someone who can support me, I see that WE can support EACH OTHER, emotionally, physically all around. Just write me note if you want to talk more.. and please not a one letter note.Remember noone is promised tomorrow. Live Life, Enjoy! if u want to talk to me more..leave me a note or write me on yahoo messenger my name is dashorty808

 

To the Men...

Be yourself. Be Trustworthy. Be Romantic. Why cheat? If you have a good woman by your side don't stray. Don't be selfish. We all in a rough period now. If you have an independent woman, she is going to take care of herself and she will not forget about you. Hold your woman. Spend that extra time to make her feel wanted. Woman will stray if you do not give attention. That goes both ways. Have goals in life. Do not demand or put an ultimatum on a situation. Example, "if you don't get me, this I will leave". That is not a real man. Don't base the relationship on sexual favors, it will not work. Women want to be treated like the Nubian queen that we are, not a hoe. Do not, I repeat, do not just sit around and do not go get some sort of an education. Our ancestors fought hard for us to vote and have an education. That is not attractive just to sit around and wait. Most independent woman will not give you the time of day if you are not on their level.My big thing.. if your not over your Ex-girlfriend or baby's mother dont try dating or talking to someone. you hold that grudge with her you going to bring it to your new relationship..not good

 

To the Women...

Do not make up a life, be truthful and honest. Why cheat on your man? Why! It ruins it for the rest of us. You have a good, honest, sexy chocolate, trusting, romantic man and you go off and find trash who uses and abuse you..why? Why sit around and wait for a man to take care of you. No sorry that is life. Men find that sexy, a woman who takes care of herself. Be confident in yourself. Have goals in your life. Make your man feel like is wanted by you and you only. Surprise him! We all have had are bad relationships in the past. Please do not save that same drama for your new man. He did not do anything to you. Yes it is hard to move on but you have to. I myself can understand but you have to push it away. Your body is a temple, don't destroy it. It is okay to say no. Ladies..If your not over your ex or baby's father.. dont talk to no guy.. they dont want to hear the drama. your new guy didnt do what your ex did.

 

 

 

What is a Relationship

Is it a one-sided struggle or is it a two-sided adventure..

Is it a bothersome hassel that adds to daily stress or does it relieve all the pressures of long stressful workday..

Do you dread waking up to another day of arguing and bickering or is he/she the reason you wake up in the morning..

Do you wish you could run away from from it all or do you want to run away with him/her..

Do you think of reasons to leave or do you find ways to make it better..

Do blame the him/her for all your problems or do you thank him/her for caring enough to get involved..

Would you love to leave him/her or would you die without him/her..

Would you save your life and leave him/her to die or would you risk eveything including your life for his/hers..

Do wake up every morning with him/her on your mind..

Do you think about how your every move affects his/her life before you make your decision..

 

For everything there is a season,

And a time for every matter under heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die;

A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;

A time to kill, and a time to heal;

A time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh;

A time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;

A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to seek, and a time to lose;

A time to keep, and a time to throw away;

A time to tear, and a time to sew;

A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate,

A time for war, and a time for peace.

 

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

 

 


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