baby_L09 Hmm... - May 22, 2010 add/view comments (0)

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Let's try this dating challenge AGAIN...Heads up, I'm not a mean person, I just know what I stand for, and I'm looking for someone to respect that... Finally realizing, I have the possiblities of becoming a hopeless romantic, I've decided that maybe I should start opening up a little more and see what comes my way. To start off, My name is Bo,I have a sharp tongue, I speak my mind, READ THAT AGAIN. Soo that summarizes if you don't like a blunt female, then keep it moving[/b]. My tolerance level is like a sandwich terror, I can tolerate but soo much which means I don't sugarcoat anything just to make you feel better about yourself.Starters.....I've realized that some (men or women) just want a lover RIGHT NOW and are willing to be kind, caring, generous, etc..to their lover, in order to let the good stuff happen (sex, companionship, explore a forbidden kink, have a ride to a concert, etc). They ignore the fact they are incompatible, or ignore red flags. This could be..man wants sex, so he pretends to be rich. Woman wants love so she pretends to not notice he is an alcoholic. They "believe" that if they love enough their lover will accept the fantasy and all will be well. Lets take an example.. A man just started to date a beautiful woman. He really wants to have intercourse with her in the road not taken (most men's real fantasy..). But he does not want to come out and discuss his need/desire with her (to see if she even wants this). He wants to impose his fantasy on her.. So he is extra nice to her, buys her a fur coat, laughs at her jokes, etc. He "expects' this will get him his result. So, a month later, he tries his game on her and she says "oh you freak, I would never do that, ugh". So, man decides to be mean and nasty because he got denied. He makes fun of her face, hair, butt, shoes, even though he previously professed adoration. He refuses to pick her up after work, making excuses. He finds it easier to not return phone calls, or open the door for her. Gf has no idea why he is being mean, other than that he used to be nice and is no longer. He wont' come out and admit he was manipulative in the first place. She becomes nasty to him, he stops caring about her, he starts looking elswhere, bad karma all around. Think before continuing.....  Are you the type who can be civil on days you feel awful, kind on days your girlfriend is in a rotten mood, and able to handle dissapointment, frustration and boredom as well as joy, passion, and romance? I think we all want a lover who is our biggest fan, who has a wild crush on us, even for the things we (hope) they ignore (like the fact we fart in bed, for example). Have you ever had someone totally wild about you, who felt they were the luckiest person in the world now you were in their life--and they were willing to work, to grow, to forgive, to understand..to keep you? Other than that... I like to learn new things, exercise, observe one another,make friends, play the sims, or even build a computer or two. I'm currently a sophomore in college majoring in computer science hoping to evolve into a forensics engineer. I love a guy that can make me laugh, it's the key to my heart. So if you just like to breathe on the phone, just pick up the phone and talk to yourself. I'm very loving of my family to a certain extent. Many people ask me what I'm "mixed" with...Well I have a history of family from brazil and belize so you do the math. I like the type of guys who have their head on straight, have the proper common sense to spell right, some kind of appearance that'll make a girl look twice, sense of humor, discipline is a must, must have a JOB or at least something going for themselves ( I know a liar from an honest person) , as well as a must to be taller than me. Hmm...What else? Oh yes, I have a favorite type I music I listen to 24/7. I'm a disc jockey junkie. My favorite artists is Flying Lotus, and I'm his number one fan. My favorite color is pink. Any ink man is my type of guy.... I'M 19 YEARS OLD WITH THE MIND OF A 37 YEAR OLD, SO IF YOU DONT LIKE IT, EXIT OUT!IF YOU CANT ACCEPT ME AT MY WORST, YOU DONT DESERVE ME AT MY BEST. *My favorite asset of me is "the booty" of course. I'm photogenic. *I like to dance. *I like to give everyone a chance, no matter how hideous someone is. I deal with my problems first, then others later on. *I'm a go-getter with alot of liberation with a viberian twilight of myself. If you have any questions, send a message OR contact me via messenger likeitbutdontneedit@yahoo.com