babyphat_1983 Ladies you don't have to show everything to get a males attention. Give him a little & hold the best for when the feelings & commitment come - September 20, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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INTRO:
Welcome to the improved Babyphat_1983@blackplanet.com! I try my best to keep it in tip top shape, and update as often as possible. With that said, feel free to drop by anytime to check out what's new!!!

As you scroll down, you will find interesting facts and deep subjects for your mind to marinate on, so continue on ... help yo self, just keep my spot in mind and pass the word on! For any reasons...I`m not your cup of tea, because I`m too real, happen to pull your card ("put you out there"), or sh!t is not to your liking...DON`T SEND A NOTE...just move along.

Getting To Know Me:

Let me balance this out for those of you who are actually showing interest. As you can see, I`m a beautiful, 28 yr old woman. What you probably can`t see is that I`m usually very blunt, and to-the-point...one of those people who say what most are thinking and/or afraid to say.. I`m also very intelligent, and comical. Some would describe me as silly, CrAzY, stupid etc. ... This lady (BABYPHAT_1983) is confident, self-assured, and determined! I know what I want out of life and I make every possible effort to ensure that I attain it. Though I seldom admit it, I love to flirt - can`t help it- it`s in my nature..where was I??? Oh yes, I have a tendency to be a bit sarcastic at times, but I have a very sweet & caring side that draws people to me like gravity.

Im a regular girl and PROUD OF IT,not a diva , a barbie doll or a "bad %#&@$!"...Im the girl next door & so much more. I need not change to fit ANYONE'S standards but God's. My talent & exceptional brain enhances my beauty more then cosmetics ever could. I run the world..my own at least, and when I walk into a room I command all attention..Im a movement..so dont get left.

Real people, arent scared of flaws, or skin mishaps. they are happy with them selves no matter what shape or form. light or dark skin. fat or skinny. beautyful or ugly. Confidence is defined by the person who believes in their self. I vow not to ever EDIT my pictures to please any one else or look flawless. My flaws are what makes me who i am.

On the flip side, some things that I absolutely despise would be bad attitudes, disrespect of any kind, snobbishness, and the list continues...

PROFILE:
*AFROCENTRIC (NOTHING BUT PURENESS)

*DARK-BROWN EYES AND HAIR

*LONG LOCS/DREADS

 *FULL LIPS

*257 POUNDS, A SEXY FULL-FIGURED DIVA
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(don`t get this sh!t twisted!)

*STANDING AT 5'9.

STATUS
I'm currently Single and Dating by choice. (God have blessed me with many friends.)


PERSONAL QUOTES:

"I've made mistakes in my life. I've let people take advantage of me & I've expected way less than what I deserve, BUT--I've learned from my bad choices & even though there are some things I can never get back & people who will never be sorry, I know better the next time & won't settle for anything less than what I deserve."

"I enjoy positivity and I believe if you stay positive, then positive things will come."

"Life is a constant progress for me...I try to enjoy the simple things, never take anything for granted & fall in love as much as I can,..LOL"

"Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher."

Specialties That Make Me A Woman:

Honesty: I know that it may be hard to believe but there are still women out there (speaking to mah brothas) that are not down with playing games and can be faithful to one person. Besides my friends and family it is all about the man that I am with. Yes, I`ve tried and found out that I am not the type to date for too long. If it's ment for us to be together....we'll that's what will happen....life moves on.  I will not settle for the "girlfriend" title. WE'RE NOT IN GRADE SCHOOL.
 
Goal-oriented: I've done plenty to get myself into the position of where I now stand in life. Sky is the limit. If there's anything that I want...I will do everything in my power to obtain it.

Preference In A Man:

I am not looking for a man, so he could pay my bills...OR to be my "CUDDY BUDDY". Although I enjoy the male company....I do not enjoy the drama that can come with him. I tend to be picky...because  I can be, cautious...because I need to be, and defensive if necessary.
He has to be confident, committed, considerate, compassionate, respectful, and affectionate. That is not a lot to ask for! I love to see Masculinity in a man, him holding it down. A job - if not - pursuing a degree would be fine. Something to let me know he is not a dependent.

Now that is just what I am really attracted to but if I am feeling you then I am feeling you. The only reason for me to ask for these qualities when it comes to a man is because this is what I can offer. Almost all of these things I can bring to the table. Many say that in a relationship things should be 50/50.Well I think things should be 100/100. If I put in my all then I should be able to expect the same.
NOTE: I am pretty politically conscious, globally aware, spiritually bound, culturally sensitive so if you want to have a meaningful conversation I`m qualified to handle the task.