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BP Questions?
05-26-11
Some woman have just ruined it for all women with their low Self Values & Worth by doing all the work in the dating process, courting, and in the relationship. This is bad now men believe all women are the same because they are unable(without observation & actually doing the work:sticking it out) to get the grip on a future prospect because they are too engulfed in the fallacy of a past relationship/interest who did all the work. Listen some women want to be courted... They want to experience the euphoria of your efforts and advances. It is not always about spending money either, as long a woman feels you have taken the initiative/complete effort to court her, she will be all yours... Go out on a limb, make the plans from beginning to end and surprise her with something you have really researched and knows she might enjoy, especially if it is a new experience for both of you. Experiencing new things together is a great solidity builder in any type of relationship. So girls let's stop being such enablers and guys lets show these women our true caliber of a man before all is lost...(It's looking pretty bad)HURRY...

05-23-11
TIME IS VALUABLE NAH PEOPLE! LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE WITH THE FOOLISHNES NOT EVERYONE IS INTO AND HAS TIME FOR THE HOOKED ON THE BP AND OTHER INTERNET VIBE BIZNESS, SEX ADDICTS/THRILL SEEKERS. ALWAYS LEARN TO FIND SENSE OUT OF NON-SENSE? SOME PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY AND HOW MUCH THEY SAY THEY ARE INTO YOU ARE JUST ABOUT THE NON-SENSE. YOU NEED TO USE YOUR DAMN COMMON SENSE OR YOU WILL END UP FEELING LIKE A VESSEL FOR OTHER PEOPLES CRAP...;LIFE IS TOO SHORT. TRULY LIVE FOR YOU AND GO FOR WHAT YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE NOT WHAT YOU WANT...YEAH YOU MIGHT STUMBLE ALONG THE WAY AND FALL FOR SOMEONE UNWORTHY NOW AND THEN BUT PICK YOURSELF UP ONCE REALIZED...SETTLING IS NOT AN OPTION...REMOVE FRIENDS/INTRESTS IF HE/SHE IS NOT SHOWING EFFORT OR SEEM LIKE THEY ARE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU OR HAVE SCATTERD INTERESTS...THEN HELL THEY REALLY ARE NOT INTO YOU...MOVE ON...THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT WILL DO THE WORK AND LOVE DOING IT TO GET AND HOLD ON TO YOU...ESTABLISH WHAT ROLE YOU WANT TO PLAY IN WHATEVER RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE TRYING TO BUILD. AS LONG AS YOU HAVE DONE RIGHT AND KEPT IT HONEST; DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF BECAUSE IT IS NOT YOU... HELL, KNOW YOUR DAMN WORTH...NO MAN ON THIS EARTH CAN DETERMINE THAT FOR YOU...YOU KNOW WHO YOUR CREATOR IS THAT HOLDS ALL JUDGEMENT AND FINALITY...IT IS NOT ALWAYS YOU AND YOU NEED TO STOP BLAMING YOURSELF...TIRED OF TELLING YOU THAT MY FRIEND, AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE...STAY BLESSED MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS...

BP Questions?

04-07-11
Still need help with this question people! When is it that an individual matures and put away the things that are juvenile. Why is it that there are individuals out there that are 30 and over that have not evolved from the juvenile activities and attitudes? (Everything about them reek of immaturity, i.e style of dress, the way they speak, what they think is important or even the person they are looking for or find interesting shows a lack of growth.) Is there an age that is synonymous with maturity?

03-12-11 CONFUSED AND MANIPULTED...

Black women blame black men for turning to white women, disrespecting us, sleeping around, and treating us as if we are not worthy of receiving better. Black men on the other hand blame it on black women for being seemingly mean, unapproachable, fridgid, argumentative, conclusional/assuming, and direct...The blame is two-fold in my opinion, and is no less to be placed on the black man or the black woman. Anyone that has been in any type of relationship needs and should understand if you are seriously interested in a person or being with someone, not wanting/enjoying the perks you feel that the single life bring(i.e. no discussion, committment, giving of self, and understanding, the thrill of the games people play) and are willing to really get to know someone, that it will take work and mistakes will be made on both parts...It is not alright to say one thing but do or mean another...You must do the work with honesty, compromise, forgiveness, loyality(i.e. not sleeping around or seeking outside companionship when a bump is hit or the going get tough ), and verbal communication, no matter how hard, if you really mean to get to know or even be with someone...All relationships require some work in order to even maintain them...All relationships do not have to be or turn out to be sexual in nature either for this to apply...We are all damaged in some way if we have been in any type of relationship with a higher connection and must realize, admitt, accept it to be so(i.e. that's why I'm single or choose to be single, I'm a loner or choose to be a loner), and be willing to do the actual work with minor consessions. Actual forgiveness on both parts and the understanding that you may not have been the actual person who caused the damage to the person your building the relationship which is key in order to make it work or to grow the relationship...If you really want a relationship of any type you must do the work/maintainance...A TRYING PROCESS YES, BUT A PROCESS WE MUST FOLLOW NONE THE LESS WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP...What do you say?

02-28-11

What A Diffenence A Vacation Makes...Enjoying Life & Being Covered & Blessed...

12-30-10

Confident In Who I Am...Needing No Validation...Play It Straight, No Games...

10-27-10

The best things are sometimes not what we expected. Stay open to the people that God has put across your path. You may miss out on an incredible friendship because of your preconceived notions...What you want is not always what God has for you...

09-05-10

When we become too caught up in the things that could be or that seem better, we tend to miss out on the things that have already presented themselves to us and may be best, had we focused on it(We make & have time for what we want, trust). Grasping for too many things out of greed make us lose or let loose of the one thing that was sure and good, had we just given it a little more time & attention. Had we not let greed get the best of us(A bird in the hand beats two in the bush). Hurt can consume you if you allow it. Some people don't realize that Karma if that's what you want to call it("Vengeance is mine, thus said the Lord")is a good judge of character and will do the work for you, if you be patient and let it. Let go move on and you will see in time it will all be taken care of by a higher power. Just do your best to not do wrong to others and let it go when it is done to you. This is part of the growth process that will allow you to retain the joy of who you are and what you believe and stand for...Let no one have the power to steal that from you or all is lost. We all make mistakes, it is what you learn that helps you move on. WE DO NOT HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE PEOPLE & some don't care to be any different or better than what they are... Would it not be better to realize that you have learned something from a mistake or lack of judgment, than to wallow in your own self pity or hatred for another who has wronged you?..


07-31-10

Spontaneity is not always a good thing if you can't handle the feelings that comes after the action and you come down from the Euphoria of it all...Sometimes "Hard Lessons" will be learned and Reality Revealed...Think about if you can honestly handle the aftermath when you come down...Lesson Relearned, research everything and everyone thoroughly before getting involved...Sponaneity take it out of the equation and it should never be an option...

12-30-2009

Make no promises you do not intend to keep, resolve to not make resolutions just because you can and not keep them, Live life as it comes and give it your best. If your best is just not good enough for some then laugh it off and continue on, you and they will be alright in the end... Trust in a Higher Power...

09-30-09

Learning To Take The Pro-Active Approach With My Life...I Will Be the Effect, Decide What Part You Want Take With Me...

05-26-2009

Helping Others, Keeping Your Word & Having Some Decent Morals Is Impressive... "Be Impressive"

08-09-08

"Life is what you make it" So, Shoot i'm making Lemonade, right now!! lol

05-26-08

Happy B-Day to me, once again. Can't believe this year has just flown by. I am doing the Soca Wine at Soca Fest in Orlando, FL. Tiny Winey. lol

04-21-08

Why is it folks feel that they can change your mind about your convictions??? And then want to get offended when you don't give in or take the bait??? Listen, people know when things are not in their best interest and it's their choice to choose to go with the flow or exit stage right. So, if they were up front with you from day one, don't be mad because someone in this damn world knows what it is they want and won't settle!! Take the high road because there are so many out there that will. Go find them... Hate it or love it!!!

07-21-07

What is going on with the men and their photos now-a-days? They are getting worse than the women with these trying to look too sexy poses and exposing their bodies. Some of them are trying way too hard. Is it that bad that they have to go that far also? Is having a ripped body and showing it off to the world considered having sex appeal these days and does this body automatically make the man fine, cute, sexy etc?

05-26-07

Happy Birthday To Me!! Just Painting Miami Red Memorial Weekend at the Best of the Best Reggae Bash!! Do you need to get your party on? lol

04-16-07

What is going on with the world and this whole sex thing? Has casual sex become the new "IN THING"? Why is it all of a sudden the norm or cool to be having sex with your friends or people you call friends and think nothing of it? ( Even having sex with people you just met or have known for a few weeks/months) Also, why is it that when you are trying to get to know someone they are at the same time trying to put a time limit on when they think you would or should become intimate or have sex with them, especially if you already let them know you want a sexual relationship eventually? What will you have once the sex is over and done if you rush into a sexual relationship? Are you going to be able to even stand each other after or continue to be friends once you cross the line? Is it still considered a friendship after friends start having a sexual relationship or is it just a "Bootie Call"? And last but not least, what the hell is this whole "Friendship with Benefits" crap all about?

03-30-07
When is it that an individual matures and put away the things that are juvenile. Why is it that there are individuals out there that are 30 and over that have not evolved from the juvenile activities and attitudes? (Everything about them reek of immaturity, i.e style of dress, the way they speak, what they think is important or even the person they are looking for or find interesting shows a lack of growth.) Is there an age that is synonymous with maturity?

01-06-07
Why is it that because you want to be able to have an intelligent conversation without talking about or leading to sex, you get called names? I don't get that. I just want to have a decent conversation with someone who is not obsessed or has the sex on the brain mentality or someone who does not feel like he has to show his body parts off to the world! Damn!!!


Basically, I am told that I am a down to earth person who keeps it real. I am not a smoker and honestly I tend to get turned off when I know someone smokes (no offense). I like to wake up to a good cup of coffee in the morning and like a nice glass of wine with dinner. For the most part I feel comfortable in flip flops and jeans or transforming into something special and different to feed the fire and desires of that special someone. Somethings are left to be desired, I feel! "Lady in the Streets" concept is what I think it should be. I believe in carrying myself with respect of self and being a Lady... Mental fire is what I desire...

I do also believe in monogamy. If an individual feels they have to have outside relationships on the person they are "suppose to be in a committed relationship" with, then they really don't need to be with that person. So simple, right!! You would be suprised how many individuals get that simple thing so twisted. I also feel that the ground rules for any relationship (friendship, lovers & friends, exclusive) should be established from the begininng so there is no misunderstanding. The rules should also not be changed without the knowledge of the other involved. In a relationship you are there to please each other, not the masses. These are just some of my convictions, hate it or love it. I know there are some out there who agree. I am also not into the whole casual sex, or sex with my friends thing. A little innocent flirting is cool but sexual touching and play with your "suppose" to be friend hell no... I do not feel that it is cool to invite things into your life that you don't really want... You get enough coming in without an invitation. LoL Hate it or love it.

I am a mother and my children are second only to God. They are very much a part of me, Hate it or love it! I do raise mine with the "Old Skool" mentality though. I feel that we as the "underdogs" need to take back pride in raising our kids to be productive and successful individuals. Helping them to escape the brain wash trap...

Me in a nut shell is a person who knows there is a time and place for everything. I am pretty honest about who I am and what I like or dislike. I like to have good clean fun. I am multifaceted and eclectic, so as long as it is in the legal bounderies and does not cause harm to others or animals, I am game. Those who know me like to keep me around. You just have to get with the Bahamapeachie Xperience and you will see.




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