Man was created with the woman hidden in his being. God then
skillfully brings out of him that hidden part called woman. She was
taken "out of him." her removal left a void and this creates man's
attraction for her. She was the softer side of him. She was his
tenderness, and those emotions he couldn't share. She was the tears
that would not fall, the passion he didn't allow himself to feel,
and the trembling compassion that he could never express. When he
makes love to her, he is actually embracing the softer side of
himself. he is holding all that he is unable to say in his arms and
loving it, touching it, stroking the part of his being that wishes
it could be held, and if he is wise, he does it with all his
strength. Tenderness, sensuality, and passion erupt when he has the
knowledge that he is some how making love to the softer side of
himself. No man gets a relief from holding a a woman who exhibits
the same characteristics he already has, his very attraction for
her is predicated upon the part of him that is missing. She is the
missing rib that left his side hollow. When he connects with her,
he feels somehow complete.
