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HOW GOES IT? WHAT IT DEW BLACKPLANET? IM LOOKING FOR SOME REAL PEOPLE TO HAVE FUN WITH. I DONT LIKE FAKENESS I DONT LIKE LIERS AND I DONT LIKE ANYONE WHO IS AFARID TO BE THEMSELVES. SO PLEASE BE YOURSELF AND IF YOU LIKE YOU ILL LIKE YOU! Grown Women Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends. Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just one man. Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women
and their male friends. ! 
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"How To Love A Black Man" The first thing you must understand There s No Easy Way to Love a Black Man You ve Got to Figure Him out Learn What He s about And Know He s Someone You Can t Live Without Then Kill Him with Kindness Shower Him with Sweetness But Never Let Him Mistake Your Kindness for Weakness Its Hard for Him to Give Himself to You Appreciate of the Little Things He Tries to Do Let Him Know He Can Confide in You And in Return He Won t Have to Hide Things from You So be Supportive Be His Friend Not His Foe When He Makes a Mistake Don t Say I Told You So Be Understanding Not Demanding Let Him Unwind He Faces a World of Rain So Be his Sunshine Don t Get Too Cozy in the Comfort Zone You ll Take Him for Granted and End up Alone Keep Love Exciting and New Go the Extra Mile Keep Finding New Ways to Make Him Smile Remember to Be Sexy Because Without a Doubt He Wants to Be Proud When HeTakes You out Don t Let Yourself Go Don t Forget about You Love Yourself and He Will Love You Too Don t Smother the Man Let Him Breathe The Tighter You Hold on The Faster He Will Leave And When You Love Him Love Him All the Way down Don t Be Afraid to Explore Him Pound for Pound If You don t Give Him What He Needs to Feel I Guarantee That Someone Else Will Be Honest Be Patient And Demand Respect And a WonderfulBlack Man Is What You ll Get Show Him YourPride Stand by His Side Let God Be Your Guide And Love Will Abide  See what drug you are. They take my kindness for weakness They take my silence for speechless They consider my uniquenessstrange They call my language slang They see my confidence as conceit They see my mistakes as defeat They consider my success accidental They minimize my intelligence to "potential" My questions mean I`m unaware My advancement is somehow unfair Any praise is preferential treatment To voice concern is discontentment If I stand up for myself, I`m too defensive If I don`t trust them, I`m too apprehensive I`m deviant if I separate I`m fake if I assimilate My character is constantly under attack Pride for my race makes me, "TOO BLACK!" > |
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