Im sending a message out there to all the real MEN!! not boys; dont have time for games nor bull%#&@$!; one thing about me I may LIKE you; but I DONT need you. MUST have a JOB a CAR and CANNOT stay at home with your mother. kids are kool, but NO babies IM NOT trying to be the step mother!! Im not being mean or harsh just keeping it real because I dont want you to come WEAK; been there done that with the BS .. it's time to stop settle'n for less than what I deserve!!
NOW that we've got that out the way i'll let you know a little about me!! my name is Brenda im 38 years old I have 2 children one 20 and one 15 no grandbabies Im single and I handle my business. I live alone in my own home .. I have my own car .. and I pay my own bills!! I consider myself a BOSS because Im always on top of my game!! I've been in few relationships with men who act like boys .. Im a grown %#&@$! woman; I'VE RAISED MY KIDS .. so honey you need to bring it and bring it hard!! im currently going to school for medical billing and coding .. I like yo hang out with my girls and spend time with family .. I love to have fun .. I like compatibility .. I want someone I can be on the same page with && like to do the things I like to do .. fot instance ... I like to hold intelectual conversations; about the real world and whats going on around us .. it's not all about sex guys .. broaden your horizons .. look for more than just a booty call .. look for personality .. smiles .. and heart!! dont go for just outer appearance .. look for much more!! Im a very kind and giving person but please dont try and play me .. Im looking for someone who I cant get to know by starting off with being friends .. if you looking to just meet and greet by emailing each other a couple of times .. [lol] you've got to kidding me!! So if we are all on the same accord then let's see what happens and I hope to meet alot of nice gentlemen!!
