biggirllover94

Schools

Whatsup BP peeps! I`m a 34 year old black man living in Durham, NC (The Bull City) in search of friends. I enjoy making friends & meeting new people.



If you`re looking for a thug, a pimp, or a playa, then I am not the one. I treat everyone with respect. You give me some respect & you`ll get it in return. Treat me the way you want to be treated. I believe in the old saying, "what goes around, comes around."



ABOUT ME



5`9"

Short black hair

Nice hazel eyes

Laid back

Down-to-earth

Honest

Dependable

Respectable

Trustworthty

Understanding

Likes to laugh

Loving

Caring

Romantic

A Gentleman in the streets, a Freak in the sheets

Freaky (How freaky? Just ask)





Things I like in a woman



A BBW

Laid back

Down-to-earth

Honest

Dependable

Respectable

Trustworthy

Understanding

Likes to laugh

Loving

Caring

Romantic

Freaky (How freaky? Just ask)



BLACK WOMAN CAKE



2 cups of intelligence, 1 cup of brown sugar cause she`s got to be sweet, mental, deep, & sound. Cinnamon is always good to accent the taste. A few cups of culture so she`s down for her race. I`m adding butter cause she must be smooth. 2 raisins for dimples will also be cool. I must add eggs so she can reproduce. Can`t leave her hanging, I like children too!! I think I`ll ad a little salt to balance her out. And a dominant profile to show she has clout. For a responsible woman I`ll throw in some yeast so she`ll swell with juices when I`m ready to feast. I`ll add 7 cups of courage and into the oven to bake. Turn it to 360 degrees to balance out her mental state. Now that it`s done, I won`t share her wealth, but I`m sharing the recipe as I`m comsuming this black woman all by myself.



LOVE



Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing and crying. Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment. Love means believing in someone, in something. It suppases a willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, & to rejoice. Satisfaction & ultimate fulfillment are by-products of dedicated love. They belong only to those who can reach beyond themselves,to whom giving is more important than receiving. Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams they have. Love involves much careful & active listening. It is doing whatever needs to be done and saving whatever will promote the other`s happiness, security, & well-being. Sometimes love hurts. Love is on a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive, caring, and open, both to what others say & to what others cannot say. Love say no with empathy & great compassion. Love is firm, but when needed, it must be tender. When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in yours in your moments of discouragement & disappointment. Love is reliable. Love is a choice and committment others true & lasting happiness. It`s dedicated to growth & fulfillment. Love is not selfish. Love sometimes fail for lack of wisdom, lack of abundance,lack of weakness, but it forgives, knowing the intentions are good. Love does not attach conditions. Genuine love is always a free gift. Love realizes and accepts that there will be disagreements & distrubing emotions. Lover encourages freedom of self. Love share positive & negative reactions to warm & cold feelings. Love, intimate love will never reject others. It`s the first to encourage & the last to condemn. There may be times when miles lay between, but love is a committment. It believes & endures all things. Love is a committment to growth, happiness & fulfillment of one another.



THIS IS SO TRUE



If you are not married, share this with a friend. If you are married, share this with your spouse or other married couples... and reflect on it. An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye." Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don`t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low-self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don`t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren`t really that important.



Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become moer obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you`ve got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.



And your mate may have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, and strenghts. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.



Neither one of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurts, past mistrust, past pain. You can`t take someone to the altar to alter them.



You can`t make someone love you or make you stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and a "life", you won`t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happinees or responsible for your pain. Maniplulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving, and lasting relationship.



Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship. What keeps a relationship strong? Communcation, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks. Some getaway time without business or children, Daily exchanges (a meal shared, a hug, a call, a touch, a note). Leave a nice message on their voicemail or send a nice e-mail. Sharing common goals and interests.



Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can`t always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment.



Don`t try to control one another. Learn from each other`s family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don`t put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember, for richer, or poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawl, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion. "Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher that you think."





Before you leave, show a brotha some luv by signing my guestbook and/or hitting me up with a note. Peace Yahoo Messenger:Biggirllover74 Myspace:NCLEGITMALE

Virgo
You are shy at first, and because of that, it is hard for you to find lots of random sex partners. You are very intelligent and very into sex. You will only have sex with clean people, because you are afraid of getting an STD. You are also very kinky and imaginative in the sack. Your partners always have a hard time keeping up with you. Sex matches: Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio
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