bigred_jm "Just can't live that negative way... make way for the positive day!" Bob Marley - May 19 add/view comments (2) |
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MY NAME IS PAM. I AM 29 YEARS OLD. (GETTING CLOSER AND CLOSER TO 30…LOL)
I WAS BORN IN GERMANY BUT I GREW UP IN A SMALL TOWN CALLED MCCLELLANVILLE, SC. (YES I AM A COUNTRY GIRL AND I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH IT).
I AM SO BLESSED TO BE BORN INTO THE GREATEST FAMILY IN THE WORLD. I AM THE OLDEST OF NINE CHILDREN (7 GIRLS, 2 BOYS) AND I HAVE TWO GREAT PARENTS WHO ARE STILL TOGETHER AFTER ALL THESE YEARS. MY FAMILY HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME AND I LOVE THEM MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE IN THE WORLD.
GRADUATED FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH CAROLINA IN 2000 (POLITICAL SCIENCE MAJOR)
CURRENTLY LIVE IN MONCKS CORNER, SC
I DON’T HAVE ANY KIDS. I LOVE CHILDREN. I HOPE TO HAVE THEM SOME DAY BUT I WANNA MAKE SURE I AM STABLE FIRST.
I WORK IN INSIDE SALES FOR A STEEL COMPANY. IT IS NOT WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO BE DOING BUT I AM THANKFUL TO HAVE A JOB.
BBW, PLUS SIZED, CURVY, THICK, VOLUPTUOUS….WHATEVER YOU WANNA CALL IT, I AM THAT. I AM 5’11 AND “LET’S NOT GO THERE” LBS. I WILLINGLY ADMIT THAT I NEED TO EXCERSISE MORE TO BETTER MY HEALTH BUT I WILL NEVER BE SKINNY AND I AM NOT TRYING TO BE. GOT A PROBLEM WITH THAT, WELL IT REALLY IS YOUR PROBLEM. (DON’T IT GET IT TWISTED….I STRUGGLED WITH MY BODY IMAGE AS MUCH AS EVERYONE ELSE….LEARNING TO ACCEPT MYSELF THE WAY I AM TOOK A HUGE WEIGHT OFF MY SHOULDERS. MY PICS ARE MY TRIBUTE TO MYSELF AND A REFLECTION OF MY ACCEPTANCE AND LOVE OF MY BODY THE WAY IT IS.)
LET’S SEE WHAT ELSE…..HMMMM…. I AM A LEO, FAVORITE COLOR IS BLACK, LOVE ITALIAN FOOD, AND I AM A NEWS JUNKIE.
I LOVE BOB MARLEY. DURING ONE OF THE LOWEST POINTS OF MY LIFE I BEGAN TO LISTEN TO HIS MUSIC. HE GAVE ME HOPE, CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE AND MADE ME FALL IN LOVE WITH REGGAE.
HERE IS WHAT I BELIEVE…..
ON DATING/MEN/RELATIONSHIPS
I AM SINGLE. DOES IT GET LONELY? HELL YEAH SOMETIMES. BUT I HAVE BEEN IN A VERY BAD RELATIONSHIP THAT NEARLY COST ME MY LIFE AND FROM IT I LEARNED TO BE PATIENT AND TAKE MY TIME. I DON’T HAVE TO HAVE THE PERFECT MAN I JUST NEED ONE WHO IS PERFECT FOR ME. I AM WILLING TO WAIT AS LONG AS IT TAKES TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE. I KNOW TOO MANY PEOPLE IN BAD RELATIONSHIPS FOR BAD REASONN. I WOULD RATHER BE ALONE THAN UNHAPPY.
ON FRIENDSHIP
I AM ALWAYS OPEN TO MAKING NEW FRIENDS. YOU NEVER REALLY KNOW WHO YOU CAN BE FRIENDS WITH IF YOU DON’T GIVE PEOPLE A SHOT. I DON’T DISCRIMINATE BASED ON GENDER, RACE, RELIGION, OR ANYTHING ELSE WHEN IT COMES TO MY FRIENDS. THE ONLY THING I CAN’T TOLERATE IS STUPIDITY COMBINED WITH AN UNWILLINGNESS TO LEARN AND GROW.
ON RELIGION
I AM NOT A RASTA. I SAY THIS BECAUSE I AM ONLY BEGINNING TO LEARN WHAT IT EVEN MEANS TO BE A RASTA AND I CAN’T CLAIM THAT WHICH I DON’T FULLY UNDERSTAND. I WAS RAISED IN THE CHRISTIAN FAITH AND TO BE HONEST I AM AT A POINT WHERE IT SEEMS I HAVE MORE QUESTIONS THAN ANSWERS….BUT I SUPPOSE THAT IS A GOOD THING BECAUSE A FEWS YEARS AGO I WOULD BARELY ACKNOWLEDGE GOD MUCH LESS QUESTION HOW I COULD SERVE HIM. I BELIEVE , NO SCRATCH THAT, I KNOW THERE IS A GOD, I KNOW HE WALKS WITH ME EVERYDAY, I KNOW I SCREW UP AND I KNOW THAT HE GUIDES ME BACK ON TRACK. I BELIEVE THAT WHETHER YOU CALL HIM GOD, JAH, ALLAH, BUDDA, OR ANYTHING ELSE HE IS THE SAME GOD. HE DIDN’T MAKE US LOOK THE SAME, TALK THE SAME, THINK THE SAME. WHY WOULD HE MAKE US ALL PRAY THE SAME? IF EVERYONE PRATICED THE TRUE PRINCIPLES OF THEIR FAITHS. THE WORLD WOULD BE AT PEACE….WE FIGHT OVER THE DETAILS AND MISS THE POINT. FOR NOW “LOVE IS MY RELIGION” (ZIGGY MARLEY)
WHAT I LIKE TO DO:
I LOVE LIVE MUSIC. ESPECIALLY LIVE REGGAE. THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT THE POSITIVE VIBE AND THE BEAUTY OF TALENTED MUSICIANS THAT CALMS MY SPIRIT. I ALSO LIKE GOING TO THE THEATER, WALKING ON THE BEACH, MUSEUMS, COMEDY SHOWS, PICNICS, CULTURE/ARTS FESTIVALS, NATURE TRAILS, UNIQUE RESTAURANTS, AND DRIVES THROUGH THE COUNTRY. I AM ALSO JUST AS HAPPY SPENDING TIME AT HOME PLAYING CARDS OR ENGAGED IN GREAT CONVERSATION WITH MY FRIENDS. I RECENTLY STARTED WORKING ON SOME ARTS AND CRAFTS PROJECTS BUT THE VERDICT IS STILL OUT ON THAT ONE.
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