People, be who you are and stop remaking yourself for the internet. I am a big, beautiful, vivacious black woman, and I am so proud of it. I wont disrespect myself or you by telling you I am something besides what I am. This is what God saw fit for me and if I can accept it, you will have to also..

Take the time everyday to do something good for yourself. Use self confirmation. Love yourself more than anybody else ever could. For me, I am like Mary J, I like what I see when I am looking at me when I am walking past the mirror. Nobody can make you fee that kind of special but yourself!!!!!

Life is too short people. Stop playing with other peoples emotions. Be true to yourself first, and then you can be true to other people. Be real with yourself, so you can be real with other people.. Life is too short to be fake.