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I'd like to meet a man. A God-fearing man. A man that's not afraid to show emotion and can cry but is strong enough to hold me down. A man that will put it down so, that I'll wanna "slap his daddy" A man that sets goals and has the desire to reach them. A man that I can depend on and vice versa. A man that has something to bring to the table. A caring, loving man. A man with a purpose as well as a retirement plan. A man who's eyes light up any room and who's personality make all the... (continue reading)

This is a topic that really needs to be talked about. I've read many blogs talking about many things, but this is the MOST important! A friend of mine has a blog up about smelly pus pus, so I figured it was only appropriate that I tell my story! It's a pretty grotesque story to say the least, but I'ma share it anyway! The short story is a guy which whom I was ABOUT to be intimate with, who left a few gifts behind for me! What I mean by that is he asked if I were down for a "69" I... (continue reading)

Women, this one's for you... There is no reason why you should be calling any woman asking if they are f*cking your babydaddy. If you feel the need to ask yourself this question, then yes, he probably is cheating on you. Now that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm the one he's cheating on you with. So since I care so much about my ladies out there, I'm gonna give you a couple of pointers on how to find out if your man's f*cking someone else, WITHOUT you violating him checking his cell phone... (continue reading)

This is a very sensitive subject for some, what exactly does submit mean and is it worth it? Well I say yes! Submit is defined as: To commit (something) to the consideration or judgment of another. Well I say yes to submissiveness. I see nothing wrong with it. I believed it orked back in the day, I see no reason why it shouldn't work now-a-days. My grandmother submitted to her husband and they lived a wonderful life together, more than 20 years. I was brought up and taught that the women is... (continue reading)

I will be the first to admit, I'm not the average woman as far as romance is concerned, but I do enjoy the occasional floral arrangement being delivered to the office for no reason. I've had flowers given to me once in my life. I'm 27. Is this because men don't think that highly of me, or because they THINK I won't appreciate it? I don't care what any woman says, EVERYONE appreciates being sent flowers...especially "just because" flowers. "Just because" flowers are the ones you get not... (continue reading)

10. DON'T make your date drive. I understand your sponsoring the movie and dinner however, don't get cheap when it comes to gas, man. You'll might as well go all out! 9. DON'T bring a pistol with you on your first date. I'm an understanding person and I realize you have a life away from me, but can you please not bring your drama with you on OUR date! 8. DON'T wear clothing you can't afford! I went on a date with a fella and noticed he had a tag sticking out of his jeans; me being a... (continue reading)