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    Friends, Casual Dating, Networking, Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    November 18, 2000

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    49

  • Relationship Status:

    Divorced

  • Primary Job:

    Manufacturing and Production

  • Location:

    Gainesville, FL

  • Race:

    Black/African American


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WELCOME TO THE BLACKBERRY ORCHARD




 

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Greetings! Thanks for stopping by. I'm alwas hearing or reading that there are so few "Good Black Men" around. Well, I wont try and speak for all Black Men but I can tell you we do exist. Maybe, just maybe...you've gotten the wron definition of a Good Bleack Man...So I've provided the reading below. Enjoy....
Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most we can t see because we don t know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn t flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face." But, as you mature, you realize it s better to find someone who s got your back rather than someone who turns your head.



A good man doesn`t agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn`t just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn`t declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, yada, yada he is (he won`t have to because it shows).



He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn`t have to degrade you to prove he`s right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.



A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect.



He needs to feel that you don`t live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!"



A good man isn t insecure abouthis women having great achievements. In fact he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when she begins to lose herself, for the sake of "not hurting his feelings, or I just want to make him happy." His happiness comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. For as she excels and is exalted, agood woman will bring her good man right along with her.



A good man doesn`t necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine`s gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don`t judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You`ll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It`s just not true.





"I will praise thee; for I am FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made: MARVELLOUS are thy works; and that MY SOUL knoweth right well." Ps.139:14



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YOU ARE COMPLETE!


Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are, doesn t mean you shine any less.

Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can t be topped, doesn t stop you from being the best.

Just because no one has come along to share your life, doesn t mean that day isn t coming.

Just because no one has made this race worthwhile, doesn t give you permission to stop running.

Just because no one has realized how much of a man you are, doesn t mean they can affect your masculinity.

Just because no one has come to take the loneliness away, doesn t mean you have to settle for a lower quality.

Just because no one has shown up who canlove you on your level, doesn t mean you have to sink to hers.

Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn t mean that life is always fair.

Just because God is still preparing your QUEEN, doesn t mean that you re not already a KING.

Just because your situation doesn t seem to be progressing right now, doesn t mean you need to change a thing.



"But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount upwith wings as eagles; they shall run and not get weary; and they shall walk and not faint." Is.40:31

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april030

Female, 35, Gainesville, FL

Posted November 23, 2009