blaquebeautie

WOW.....can you believe that it has been 7 yrs since I was 1st introduced to the BP scene?....Just think another 13 yrs I will have 20 yrs on the site and I can retire w/benefits & a retirement package!! LMAO...I have met some really interesting cool people and some not so cool peeps (but we won't go there)....Some of you who I still converse with til this day!! I must say that for the most part I have enjoyed my time here.... If you wish to know more about me feel free to just ask......all I ask is that you approach me w/DIGNITY & RESPECT and I will do the same in return!!

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I get asked the same questions over & over again so I thought I'd just address them here so I don't have to repeat myself a thousand times!! (smile)...So here goes!

PERSONAL STATS....

MARITAL STATUS: Single (just as my profile says)

CHILDREN: None (hopefully one day)

HEIGHT: 5'4"

WEIGHT: 135

BODY BUILD: Toned & Muscular

SIZE: Range from a 6 to 10 depending on the cut of the article of clothing...(as someone rather rudely asked me...can you still wear that dress in your main pic? YES most definitely I can still wear it and wear it well!!) Some people!!

HAIR: Wear (relaxed) short style w/highlights......100% REAL!! NO weaves, NO tracks, NO extensions here!!

NAILS: ALL mines...100% real...NO add ons for me!

HOBBIES/ACTIVITIES/INTERESTS: Please read the profile! (smile)

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS- FAQS....

Why are you single?

I often times find it difficult to provide a precise answer to this question but let me attempt to make it simple for you....Simply put I just haven't found that person who works for me! When looking for a potential mate I want someone who has at least 70% of what it is I am looking for......that 70% can't be just any qualities but rather the most important qualities in order for me to be able to make a determination about whether or not I would be interested in an individual!!

What do you look for in a man?

*Sighing*...well the usual qualities that one would look for in addition to.....a man who is intelligent (not necessarily highly degreed individual), caring, affectionate, independent, strong but yet able to show his vulnerabilities, someone who likes to stay active (at least a moderate level of fitness), outgoing,displays integrity, honesty, morality, someone who shares my views on how relationships should work & what it entails, someone who can be versatile in most social settings, employed (is usually good - smile), someone who can handle a woman walking along side of him & not necessarily 2 steps behind him......This is NOT an all inclusive list of what I look for but just a glimpse of some of the qualities I look for in a man!

What are your physical preferences(requirements) in a man?

(If you have teeth we can roll....*LMAO*)

Some people have extremely rigid, restrictive preferences that I strongly believe lends them to overlook good quality people....so I try to keep my options open & limitless as possible!

HEIGHT: (just suggestive) but at least 5'9"/5'10"...I've dated men under/over 6'....so it varies....

WEIGHT: well I can't really judge men's weight anyways...so I have no specific restrictions here....I've dated men that ran the gamut in this area!!

BODY BUILD: again no real specific restrictions here persay!...I've dated men that ran the gamut.....

HAIR: hey it doesn't matter...ok ok let me back up on that!! LMAO.....not too keen on dreads, or curls (are outdated-LOL) ....but I have been known to be partial to (intentional or unintentional) bald men (smile)!! if you have hair...keep it groomed!

FACIAL HAIR: If you have any keep it groomed!

Are your pics recent?

YES...the pics are relatively recent & truly reflects what I actually look like!!! Most of the pics are w/in the past 12 months ....A few of them are as recent as Dec '07 or Jan '08. They are 100% REAL and are ME!!!...NO FALSE advertising here!! What you see in the pic is what you'd see in person....NO ifs, ands or buts!!!

Why do you wear a wedding ring on your ring finger?

Let me set the record straight here (I've been getting plenty of grief!!!!!)....... I have NEVER been married!! Therefore the ring on my ring finger is not a wedding ring!! The ring that which has caused me to get much grief from you brothas is simply a ladies diamond ring that was purchased BY ME, FOR ME because it looked good on my hand (finger)......That's it!! LOL...There is nothing dubious about my status or the ring! I just happen (choose) to wear it on my ring finger (on either hand)...Nothing more nothing less!! ** Sorry for this...I just had to address this before I would explode...LMAO**

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MY PHILOSOPHY ON BP NOTES

I appreciate ALL notes. If you took the time to send me a note I will surely reciprocate!! I will ALWAYS say THANK YOU for any note......Some people don't even bother to do that & simply don't even respond or prefer a person to meet "certain criteria" to deem a person "worthy" of a response. I try to be different and let people know I appreciate their note....Simple common courtesies can go a long way toward creating goodwill towards one another. So rest assure that if you send me a note I will respond in kind!!

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SPECIAL REQUEST

Please do NOT contact me via the BP IM system.....their system drastically interrupts & severely slows down whatever it is I may be doing at the time...not to mention it takes forever for an IM window to open up. I would greatly appreciate it if you could respect my wish & perhaps send a note instead. THANK YOU!

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Thank you for taking the time to stop by!!