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  • Here For:

    Casual Dating, Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    November 14, 2007

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Age:

    39

  • Relationship Status:

    Divorced

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Ethnicity:

    Other

  • Zodiac:

    Pisces


recent blog posts

Single Moms Raising Boys

Posted

http://sonia-barbosa.blogspot. com/p/single-moms-raising-boys .html

Kai and Adam. The two little people who have given my life purpose. Sometimes it's difficult and I forget this. Other times that knowledge is so persistent that I can feel its weight on my shoulders. I've been raising Kai and Adam as a single mom since 2005. Though I'm certain I was doing it prior to that year as well.

How does it feel? Being a single mom to two young boys? I believe it takes on every emotion possible. At first... (continue reading)

The "One Drop" debacle

Posted

http://sonia-barbosa.blogspot. com/2011/06/one-drop-debacle.h tml

"The United States is the only country in the world in which a white mother can have a black child but a black mother cannot have a white child." --- Stephan Thernstrom from the National Review. The article I'm referencing was published in 2000, but it should seriously make you wonder what took place in the 2010 census, and here are a couple of issues that should make you say "hmmmmmm?" Of course the latest... (continue reading)

A Self Love Affirmation

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I Love Myself Affirmation Louise Hay Deep at the centre of my being, there is an infinite well of love. I now allow this love to flow to the surface. It fills my heart, my body, my mind, my consciousness, my very being, and radiates out from me in all directions and returns to me multiplied. The more love I use and give, the more I have to give. The supply is endless. The use of love makes me feel good, it is an expression of my inner joy. I love myself; therefore, I take... (continue reading)

Ready for love

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I am ready for love
Why are you hiding from me
I'd quickly give my freedom
To be held in your captivity

I am ready for love
All of the joy and the pain
And all the time that it takes
Just to stay in your good grace
Lately I've been thinking
Maybe you're not ready for me
Maybe you think I need to learn maturity
They say watch what you ask for
Cause you might receive
But if you ask me tomorrow
I'll say the same thing

I am... (continue reading)

Black Honey

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Black Honey

 

Can I call you my Black Honey?

Mr. Super thick, extra sweet

Always hits the spot

Black Honey?

The kind of sweet that

surely can't be artificial

never, ever, superficial

Mr. extra pure, simple flowing

Black Honey?

 

 

*SB December 2005

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"Give, and it shall be given to you. For whatever measure you deal out to others, it will be dealt to you in return."

"Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart...." Washington Irving


Quotes Myspace Comments

I am beautiful.

I am black.

I am wonderful.

I am black.

And although I may not be the color of the night sky

And although my hair may be finer

And although perhaps my nose is thinner,

I am no less black than you.

I am black.

I am black down to my soul.

I have shared with you the pains of OUR ancestors.

And although you call me names,

And although you say that I am not as black as you,

I am still black.

Black like you.

And if you don't believe me,

look into my eyes and you will see OUR struggle.

And you will see OUR pain.

And if you study my back and feet,

you will see the weight of many years upon my shoulders.

And if you reach into the back of your mind,

you will recall us, together in Africa, Holding hands, running, playing, laughing, being one, being ourselves, being black.

Do you believe me now?

Do you see what I am talking about?

Even though I am yellow,

Even though I am not physically like you,

We were sisters. We were together, in OUR homeland. We are black. together.

Although my fine dark brothers may not call me their Nubian Queen,

I am.

Because I too am black.

When the outside does not matter,

My black heart shines through.

My black mind is ready to learn.

My black soul is thriving; Trying to prove my blackness, to you, my fellow black sister.

And all the while it should not be necessary.

So you see,

I am black.

I am beautifull. I

am black.

Just like you.

(Danita Roberts)

 

 

Broken Heart Myspace Comments
 
"We can worship God imperfectly, but we cannot worship him insincerely..."

 

There are No Weak Women Here

I was feeling you.......pretty
much
from the heat in your stare
to the glide in your touch
and your dialect
had conversations with my intellect
and I did not object
to the flow of any subject
even the ones that made you erect
but let me interject something
correct something
there are no weak women here

you see the last brotha that tried to play me for fool
wasn't fully aware of the 'ain't no fools here' rule
and he ended up drowning in a self-made
pool of stupidity
are you feelin' me?
come to this with only one expectation
I'm not lookin for fake love jones situations
I just have this infatuation
with brotha's who can bring mental stimulation
and that's because
there are no weak women here

understand that good wine and a fast car
can only get you so far
and it's not good to drink and drive
because you are DWI
Dealing With Intelligence
so check yo'self before you wreck yo'self
'cuz I mastered games as a child
so make this worth my while
('cuz i'm GROWN)
come to me with some style
overdose on some class
don't just try waxin' the %#&@$!
cuz i'm not yo' ride
and without breakin' my stride
I will read, write, and erase you~~
all with one look
because,
there are no weak women here

don't take this the wrong way
I'm not trying to say
that i'm too good
i'm just too good for games
and played out playa names (like boo)
and played out playa skills
I pay my own damn bills
so I don't want your loot
'cuz robbin' brotha's blind ain't cute
I have no need, nor the desire
to set any of your %#&@$! on fire
I just want to be able to fly higher
with a man who is down---to the wire
who is not afraid of a strong mind
who is not afraid of emotions, any kind
who is not afraid of strong woman visions
or a woman who makes strong woman decisions
a man who can let a strong woman cry
and not mistake the tears from her eyes
as a sign of weakness
admire her uniqueness
and when he steps to her, he'll step to her strong
'cuz he knows any other way would be wrong
because.......
there are no weak women here

(the Mytsexxy/Sinsualmind Experience)

 

 

Hello and thanks for viewing my page. A little about me..I'm 34, a professional, and a fabulous mommy to two boys that are the loves of my life. I manage a research center in MA. I have a BA in Psychology and African American studies, and a BSN. I have a great sense of humor, I'm caring, and open-minded. I'm looking to meet someone with similar qualities. Someone looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. Someone honest, trustworthy, with a great sense of humor, good hygiene :) and someone who loves life and family, and takes life with a grain of salt. And like everyone else, I need to see a picture. I'm all about being fair. Don't take it personally if I don't reply because you don't have a photo. You've been given fair warning:) ? I enjoy people of substance, whether male or female. So even if you just want a penpal - have a passion, have a purpose. In a partner, I'm looking for integrity, spirituality, trust, and lots of love. I'm a true believer in physical attraction too so I won't play you and don't play me. You may have to wake up next to this person for the rest of your life so think ahead, *grin I enjoy travel, I enjoy movies (horror mostly), I love get-together, not much into the club scene anymore. Think that's played out but I love to dance so please, enjoy dancing. I love to make my partner smile. I play a hard game of chess and spades (and I'm competitive!) and love to spend time being creative and enjoying the sunshine. Love a good mental challenge, enjoy being emotionally stable and would really like to remain that way, lol. Check out my professional profile as well. Life is not always about play~as long as you have a good balance, it all works out.

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djbrcharles
djbrcharles

Male, Age Private, Chester, PA

Posted December 03, 2007


not fair,i feel so neglected right now.lol


djbrcharles
djbrcharles

Male, Age Private, Chester, PA

Posted November 28, 2007


hello.......





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