bobbyd2009 Awmigod!, I've got about another 8 hours to spend as a New Orleans Saints fan...then, back to reality... - Feb 07 add/view comments (0) |
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Click here for Myspace Layouts I seek the Truth. Nothing else will do. Experience has led me to discover purpose in life. Having no control of the lives of others, there is little choice but focus on my own understanding, and find a way to make it work for me. I treasure peace-of-mind. My purpose is to find peace-of-mind through seeking Truth. I'm not on BlackPlanet for dating. I'm probably not suitable for it. I'm only barely into the idea of casual dating. It's hard enough to have friends. My style now will be freelance writer/photojournalist. Heavy on the "free." Interested especially in African Americans and other Africans of our diaspora, my research has this guiding light. For the time being, I am focusing on the Caribbean, and will be traveling it extensively to gather photos and writing projects beginning this Winter. Besides, I prefer spontaneous relationships, those that just happen. My real problem is about promises. I believe in promises. I won't promise anything I'm not in control of fulfilling. Experience has shown me that some people can't go that far. While in any relationship its the promises that keep it together. But, I won't make this a sermon. I don't have time. My other problem is that I can only deal with people who feel the same way. I know that's awful, but that's the way it is. Its not worth the while to force promises on anyone else, nor even to expect them to keep them. We can only hope. How dare I demand that people keep their promises? In promises there can be no compromises. No (com)-promises. No way out. I can be so anal about this that I've found it best not to seek out relationships. I'm just unsuitable to compromises where there are promises. My therapy is to seek and keep peace-of-mind. I'll be here for my friends. We can seek the Truth together.
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