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WHAT`S UP WITH HER?



There comes a time in every woman`s life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what he did, not how unfair life is, not who made you do it, just at herself in all her glory and imperfection. For many women this is a scary thing because often times they don`t want to know the truth about themselves. Real women know what I mean.



As women, we have a tendency to water each other down. Maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman. Or maybe we just don`t know how to tell that woman how we admire her.



Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up. Before you make this mistake, take a close look. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom. Someone who has been chosen by God to go through. Think of all the great women in the bible, "Mary Magdalene and Esther" to name a few. Mary was a prostitute. A very uneasy woman. But by the time God was done with her, she was his closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man. By the time God was done with her, she married one of the wealthiest men in the land.



Have you ever admired the strength of a single woman? Or have you made up your mind that it`s too bad she had children on her own. A single mother knows no bounds when it comes to her children. She is strong and durable. Single mothers are strong. Not because she has to be, but because it comes natural for her to protect the extentions of her very being. Her love for her children is like that of fuel to a car. Most mothers keep their tanks full because they understand if it runs low you could jeopardize the car and have problems in the long run. Other women only fill it when it is needed. Their cars usually break down.



Have you ever wondered why that woman is so loud? Well, hey she has a lot to say. These are usually our younger women who have to learn to refrain. They are eager and unsettled. They do before they think and they do not think before they talk. They just go.



Have you ever wondered about that woman who appears to have everything, yet is still very unhappy? Well, she doesn`t have everything. She doesn`t have personal validation. This is something that cannot be bought. This is something developed over many mistakes and challenges that have taught lessons of the unbearable.



Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up. Before you wonder, "What`s up with her?" Ask yourself, "What`s up with me"?



BE BLESSED!!!!!!!!

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