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Hmmm Ummm.........



Well my fine sisters..... I guess it is high time that I come out of the closet right now, and finally reveal who I am, what I am all about, what I am looking for in the opposite sex, and what kind of relationship I am looking for. The photos that I plan to upload to my page will be the following:



(01). The first one will be a more casual one. One of which I will be more at ease with myself. And that one will also be the one in which I will reveal who my true self is, and therefore, that will be the most risky one since I am going to be more like myself in this one..



(02). The second one will be more like my first/main photo, but only I am going to be more fashionable in this one. In this one, I am going to be wearing some fashionable and trendy gear. Something I would wear if I was going to hang out with my "boys", going to a house party, or going on an outing with my girlfriend (which hopefully in time, that's going to be you).



(03). The third one will be the one in which I'll be dressed up "to the nines". In this one, I will have a suit and tie on.



(04). The fourth photo will more likely than not, be more of a night time photo. This photo is going to reveal what I would look like when I am in a romantic/intimate situation with you. I plan to have on some silk pajamas with the top open so that I can reveal a buffed chest as well as a "six pack" and maybe, some toned biceps..... In short, I want to look like Taye Diggs in "How Stella Got Her Groove Back". Afterwards, I may have a glass of "Martell" in my hand, and a rose in the other. Or, I may have a rose in one hand, and I will pose an inviting look for you to join me.



(05). The last one, will more than likely be something that is more professional than pleasureable and leisurely. More than likely, I am going to be at work then, and that alone should be self explanatory.



But in the meantime, here is what I look like now. And I am going to try to be as accurate and true as possible. I am a "brown skinned" black male, about 5`8" and weighs 225lbs, have an innocent looking face with brown eyes, and sexy round dimples (at least, that's what women tend to say about them when they compliment them) wear eyeglasses, and keeps either a close haircut, or soon, sport a bald head. I am also clean shaven, though at times, I tend to sport a goatee. My personality tends to be on the quiet and shy side, though I can become pretty outgoing once you get to know me. I can also be vulnerable and humble at times. I am also told that I am a nice guy (though sometimes, I don`t know if that`s a blessing, or a curse...... I say that because women ALWAYS say that they`re looking for a nice guy..... but when it is all said and done, they ALWAYS tend to end up with players and thugs who tend to treat them like crap, and for that, I don`t understand), but to the right woman, there is a freaky and kinky side of me that is dying to come out. And now, what I want to know is, are you a lady who can turn this nice, quiet guy into a bad boy???



What I am all about is being a person who takes pride in him being an honest and law abiding citizen. I have always been gainfully employed. And I am about honesty and substance. And these are just two of the qualities I am looking for in the opposite sex. I am also about treating others the way that I would like to be treated, and in a relationship situation (could be either friendship or romantic), I want to be treated well (and in turn, that's the way I will treat you). What I am "NOT" about is game playing and being played by the opposite sex. I am going to put this out there right now. What I am here for is to hopefully find me a friend/companion that will hopefully develop into love later on down the line. And I would like to be able do that without none of the game playing that seems to be part of the dating landscape today. So then, I`ll say this...... if you are about playing games, golddigging, and pimping and using me for your own self gain and so forth, then go somewhere else and find you another sucker. I am not the man for you. If you are here to look for a friend, and then perhaps a lover and a possible marriage partner later on, then you belong here. Stay here and keep reading. If you are looking for someone to play games with and pimp around, move on, and GET THE HELL OFF OF MY PAGE (!!!!). Life is too short for childish games, and frankly, I don`t need the b/s and the frustration that comes with it. And since I am not a player (and I am not trying to be one either) myself, I am also about being a one woman man. Are you about being a one man woman???? So okay now.... enough about who I am and what I am all about. So now, I guess it`s on to the good part, right???? It is on to what I am looking for in the opposite sex.



So then..... what is it I am looking for in the opposite sex??? Well, since I am in love with Toni Braxton and all, finding someone like her would be ideal. But since that`s not going to happen, then I am going to keep it real and describe what kind of woman I am REALLY looking for. I am looking for an "african-american" female who has either a "honeyed" or "chocolate" complextion, and ranging from 30 y/o to 48 y/o in age. She should have inviting and expressive looking eyes for me to look into. But more importantly, what I am looking for is a warm and inviting heart, and someone who is going to appreciate what a good man does for a good woman, without either taking his kindness for a weakness or trying to drain him dry financially. I am also looking for someone who is not shallow or caught up into materialism, and someone who is god fearing (ideally, I would love to meet my woman in a church or other religious setting, so we can grow to together individually, together as a couple and spiritually), independent and has a life of her own when we`re not together. She should not be caught up into what kind of hobby I have either. That`s important as well, since I tend to have a hobby that sets me apart from other black men. And that hobby is that I am into "high-end" audio and home theater (Pioneer, Sony and Technics need not apply here..... I am talking about stuff like Adcom, Bryston, Creek, NAD, Rega, Rotel, Nakamichi, Vandersteen, etc..... and to a more expensive extent.... stuff like Linn, Classe, Mark Levinson, and Krell). And lastly, I am looking for a female who can be a lady out in public (though I don`t mind public displays of affection (like soft, wet and tender kisses out in public)..... in fact, I encourage it.... and I want it as well as she does), but yet, can be freaky and kinky in the bedroom (remember, I want me a woman who can transform this quiet, shy guy into a freak). Sexually speaking, I can be very freaky and I can give oral (all aspects..... UP TO A POINT...... and meaning that..... I am only into females.... so males need not apply here...... I am NOT into the male-to-male homosexual thing...... and if that`s what you are here for, then I suggest STRONGLY that you go elsewhere, because what ever it is that you are looking for if you are, in fact, a gay male..... THEN YOU`RE NOT GOING TO NEITHER FIND IT NOR YOU`RE GOING TO GET IT HERE!!!!! So again, not to be hating on anyone or anything like that, but if you are a male, and that is what you here for, then hey..... see you around.... what it is that you are looking for, you won`t find it here...... THIS PAGE (!!!!!) is for the ladies only..... and I cannot stress that enough), and I want me a lady who can give me the same in return.



Oh...... One last thing...... Lately, I have been either getting I/M'd, e-mailed, or propositioned by women (or might I say "so-called" women) from Africa (and the corresponding nations relating to....... I don't care if it is Ghana, Mozambique, Nigera, Zimbabwe or whatever). Well, let me tell you this right now, so that I won't be wasting your time, and you won't be wasting mine. I am NOT INTERESTED in corresponding to you IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM, so..... PLEASE...... DO NOT CONTACT ME EITHER BY E-MAIL, I/M OR WHATEVER, and this is whether I am on-line or not. I am not interested in having any kind of relations with you, and I am not interested in sending you my "hard earned" money either, so don't bother to ask me for any. I got my own problems and other %#&@$! to deal with, and I do not intend on making it worse for myself by sending my money to dumbass crooks over there in Africa (and nations corresponding to them). Any attempt to do any of the above will result in an "ignore" or a nasty response from me to you. So, if you don't want to get ignored or lashed out, then my advice to you is don't attempt to contact me at all. With that said, you have been briefed, and don't say that I did not warn you.



Now that I have described what I am looking for in a mate, the question I have for you now is, could you be THAT "Ms. Right" that I have been longing for and looking for??? I eagerly await your answer.



The type of relationship I am really looking for is a serious and exclusive one. One that will eventually lead up to an engagement and then marriage (and yes ladies..... I believe in the old fashioned ritual that it is the man who should ask the woman for her hand in marriage, so therefore, I will be the one who will do the asking. So why don`t you be a lady, and let me be a man and get on my knees and ask you to marry me). But more importantly than not, what I am looking for is a friend first. Because before we can become lovers and perhaps soulmates, we have to be friends first. Now.... if it leads up to something that is more than friends, then that`s great. Let`s follow our hearts and see where else it can lead to. To find out if there is going to be an "us" or not. If not, then at least, I will have gained me a great friend along the way.



So.... I will ask you again, could you be the princess that I have been longing to find??? This nice, quiet, shy, innocent guy awaits your answer.



If interested, either leave me a note in my "guestbook", or a note in the "notes" section of the page. Or you could hit me up at "chaskelljr2@yahoo.com".



Thank you for sharing a moment of your time with me (and hopefully, there will be plenty more).



Let`s get to know each other better.

Until then, stay beautiful and stay fine.

Will hope to holla at a sister soon.

--chaskelljr1963--

P.S.: In the meantime, here's some music for you to enjoy while you check out my page. I hope you like the selection.

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