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 Profile Graphics - ChocolateSisterGraphics.com 9 Reasons Why A Man Does NOT Call You BACK! 1. She Lacks Femininity In our gender war based society, some women have become hard, abrasive and competitive in a manly way. Dealing with these types of females is like talking to or interacting with a man. They lack womanliness and softness, those special qualities attributed to femininity. Unfortunately, they have become so indoctrinated to be tough like a man; they don`t even realize they have adopted undesirable manly attributes. These types of females are an extreme turn off for any good man. There`s something attractive and sensual about a true feminine woman. They don t talk like Lil Kim, dress like Christina Aguilera or act like Britney Spears, but they have a special essence about themselves that says to an honorable man. She must be a special lady? Women without femininity have an uncanny knack for driving away a good man. 2. She Has The, All Men Are Dogs Syndrome. Since being with her, he has learned about all of the bad things MEN have done to her. Yes, she has had a string of bad relationships. But she altogether rejects the fact that she chose to be with jerks, pimps, thugs, players, abusers, dogs, ballers and shot callers. Since she is now convinced that ALL MEN ARE DOGS, even when a good man crosses her path, she`s going to see, smell and detect a four-legged mutt! These type of females wouldn`t acknowledgeagood man if God personally appeared to them ina vision and said. This is my son in whom I`m well pleased! All good men recognize this sinister spirit and destructive attitude. They run from these females before they are unjustly categorized into their flippant generalizations. No good man wants to be talked to or treated like a dog! 3. She Is an Angry Bitter Female This dangerous group of females take the, All men are dogs, mentality to the next level. They seek to get revenge. They have been in risky relationships and miserable marriages and for their heartbreak and trauma, they are viciously bitter against the ENTIRE male gender. They hold ALL MEN accountable for what some jerk or dishonorable male did to them. They even punish the men who tried to warn them to stay away from: thugs, pimps, players, users, abusers and freaks. No male escapes his vengeful wrath. With these females forgiveness IS NOT an option. Once they meet a man, their sulphuric acid emotions and hostile feelings towards ALL MALES will eventually scald him. No sane good man will call this type of female back. 4. She Has Children This may be hard for some single mothers to swallow, but some men simply do not want to raise another man`s child. End of discussion! Whatever their reasons, (i.e., her baby`s mamma drama, misbehaved kids, furor with the baby`s father, etc.) a woman with a child needs to respect their position and leave these men alone! Don t date them! Don t get engaged to them! Don t try and convince them that they will eventually love your child. And for the love of God, don t dare marry this type of man. When a man takes issue with raising another man`s child, he is not a suitable mate for any single mom. I advise women to always be up front and let a man know if she is a single mother. Don t wait a week or a month. Do it immediately! That way, if he is the type of man who does not want toraise another man`s child, she won`t waste either of their time.Her`s, his or the kid`s. 5. She's Not The One She s got it together: education, car, house, looks, church and the whole nine yards. But, she s not The One for him! She felt something, but he didn`t. Her heart fluttered, but his didn`t. Remember, it takes two to tango. If he doesn`t feel like dancing with you if he doesn`t sense the chemistry, let him go and move on. Don t take it personally and don t try to force it. Know this for a certainty, True Love will find you! 6. He Perceives She s Desperate Some women will do or say anything to snag a man. Once a man asks them out or once they ask a man out, it`s ON! Everything these females do and say from that point on, screams, and entrapment! They will employ their feminine wiles, manipulation, biological clock, guilt and seductive sex traps to snare him. As cunning as these females are, their desperation comes forth as a simmering stench. Honorable men are weary of these females and run the other way when they meet them. No call back is warranted! 7. She Has a Storied Past We live in a society in which females are tricked, pressured, coaxed and lured into expressing their sexuality. In today`s environment, it is not uncommon for a woman to have had 2, 3, 4 or more sex partners prior to getting married. Contrary to what is publicized by the media, music and Hollywood, most honorable men simply won`t take a chance with a woman who has been with a number of sex partners. Knowing that their potential wife and mother of their children has had sex with Tom, Skeet, Pimp Daddy and King Kong, weighs heavily on a some men`s conscience. It is common for me to meet married men who are greatly disturbed about the fact that their wife had previous sex partners before they married. Regrettably, they never discussed how her past might affect his conscience prior to getting married. Believe it or not, some men refuse to marry a woman unlessshe is a virgin. When they find out about her storied past, acall back IS NOT an option. That does not mean she won`t find True Love, it just means that because of her sexual past, certain men won t find her to be a suitable mate. 8. He Has Not Mobilized Himself For Matrimony There will be times when you meet what seems to be the perfect man. The chemistry is there. You`re both attracted to each other. You re like two peas in a pod, but he has not mobilized himself for matrimony. Understand this; men and women view marriage differently. When women see marriage, usually the first thing they see is the ring, gown, bride`s maids and that breathtaking glide down the aisle. When men see marriage, the first thing they see is the financial responsibility, the ability or inability to take care of their wife and children. If an honorable man does not believe he has mobilized his career and finances to handle this responsibility, he usually won t call back. No matter how fine, beautiful or smart she is. Contrary to popular belief, it has nothing to do with a fear of commitment or getting cold feet. The question on a man s mind is how am I going to take care of her if we get married? If he doesn`t have the answer to that question right then and there, although she may not understand it, he clearly understands that he has not mobilized himself for matrimony. 9. She s Easy As Sunday Morning Some females have no morals, values or self-respect. They have no qualms about having sex outside of marriage. Including but not limited to: one-night stands, multiple sex partners and cohabiting. These easily swayed females will do and try anything: lesbianism, dancing at strip clubs, orgies, abortions, pornography and drugs. They have no shame. Once they meet a man, it doesn`t take much for them to agree to have sex or let him know; I want to sex you up! Although these females are magnets for dishonorable males, pimps and players, they still seek out good &  Profile Graphics - ChocolateSisterGraphics.com LIFE AND A CAN OF BEER When things in your life seem almost to much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar........and the beer. A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full.They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes." The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed. "Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends, your favorite passions--things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. "The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else--the small stuff. If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house, and fix the disposal. "Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand." One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers." (Or a couple of glasses of wine)
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