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Can someone tell me if its normal for someone to intentionally hurt someone because they're angry or hurt? I don't understand revenge. I don't get pleasure out of hurting someone because they've hurt me or possess the feeling that I want to hurt them more. I prefer to just cut my losses and move on, deal with my pain like an adult instead of lashing out. Am I a unique individual? Is it abnormal that I feel a painful situation is enough and there is no need to throw fuel on a fire? Should you... (continue reading)

I'm sitting here looking up the word dating in the dictionary because I really think my understanding and interpretation is all wrong. How come it's so hard to date? Why is it so hard to find somebody you have a genuine connection with? I thought the steps of dating consisted of meeting somebody you have a physical attraction to, then talking to them to see if your personalities match and from there you'll know if there's chemistry. Once the initial requirements are established you think... (continue reading)