classy57lady Class recognizes class - Jun 14 add/view comments (0)

PLEASE, DO ME A FAVOR AND READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE

IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITH THE LORD AND IF HE IS NOT THE HEAD OF YOUR LIFE PLEASE PASS ME BY. AT THIS STAGE IN MY LIFE I'M SEEKING A MAN WHO CAN BE MY HEAD AS CHRIST IS HIS HEAD. I REALIZE THAT THIS LIMITS MY CONTACTS, HOWEVER, IT'S WELL WORTH IT TO ME. THERE IS NO POINT IN US WASTING EACH OTHER'S TIME.

I DO NOT READ MY GUESTBOOK NOR DO I SIGN ANYONE'S GUESTBOOK.

NO NORTH, SOUTH, EAST OR WEST AFRICANS MALES OR FEMALES......YOUR SCAMS ARE REALLY GETTING OLD, AND TIRED, I MIGHT ADD!!!!

DO NOT SEND ME CLICK-NOTES. IF YOU CAN NOT TALK TO ME PERSONALLY, JUST PASS ME BY

Hello BP,

Thanks for dropping by. So very glad to see you. Retired and loving every minute of it.

Let me tell you a little about myself. I am a vibrant 64 year old, independent, black, woman who is young at heart, know who I am and what I want. I am an Evangelist and love the Lord with all my heart.

I give as well as require a lot of attention, especially, in a long distance relationship. Let me also say that whatever it takes to get my attention it takes the same thing to keep my attention so, please, don`t start anything you can`t finish, okay?

I am a very warm, loving and caring person and treat others the way I would like to be treated. A very touchy, feely, person, love to cuddle, a die hard romantic, intelligent and confident. I believe in connecting first spiritually, then emotionally and, oh yes, last but certainly not least and when the time is right, physically.


Although I'm a good woman what I'm NOT is a complete Proverbs 31 woman. Let's keep it real fellows, most of you would not know what to do with a complete Proverbs 31 woman even if you had one. However even in our age group we are striving to be better.

Peace and harmony in my life are a must and I will go to great lengths to keep it that way.

I am very adamant about eating right and keeping in shape. I power work over 3 miles six days a week.

I stand about 5`6" tall, as you can see, I`m the color of milk chocolate and wear my hair shoulder length, or however way I choose at any given time. And on the subject of hair. It is a well known fact that most black women either have trouble keeping their hair looking good on a daily basis or problems with breakage and growth of the hair therefore finding it much more convenient to wear wigs or weaves. So for all you fellows who ask that infuriating question "Is that your real hair?" Since this seems to be soooo important to you.....To you I say, "Yes it is and I will gladly take it off and give it to any lady who might need it more than I do.....LOL,LOL,LOL." Now you figure it out. Besides if it looks good enough for you to have to ask that question then the answer really is not that important, now is it???

I am the mother of two and the grandmother of three.

Meeting all different kinds of people and finding out their views on different subjects is what I like to do best in addition to real estate investing.

I`ve served in the military, have travelled somewhat on both the east and the west coasts and still love to travel.

I am seeking a casual to serious relationship with a younger, mature, STRONG minded, BLACK, man who is not intimidated by an older woman and who is not seeking an older woman to take care of him. I'd rather be a babysitter than a nurse........LOL,LOL. Someone confident and wise enough to appreciate an older woman. A man who takes pride in his appearance, takes good care of himself, eats right and exercises. And, oh yes, on that note, I have read a lot of you fellows' profile which quotes Lil' Kim..... "A man wants a lady in the streets and a "freak" in the bedroom", which is all well and good. Although I have a problem with the word "freak" which some of us tend to use so freely when describing acts done in the bedroom. There is nothing "freaky" about 2 people sharing the act of LOVE and RESPECT for one another which ever way they choose. Don't get it twisted. It becomes "freakly" (unnatural) when there is no LOVE and RESPECT involved. Then it's something that even the lower class of animals do.
H-O-W-E-V-E-R...... well how can I put this as delicately as possible......as quiet as it's kept there are some of you fellows both younger and older than I who have trouble physically in the bedroom for whatever reason(s). It's just like a dog who chases a car. Once he catches it he can't drive it....LOL,LOL Plus you can't or won't take Viagara........ to you I say......please pass me by. I fully realize that God has the last word, however, I am going to do my part to stay healthy and physically fit for the rest of my life and I need someone who will do the same. Not interested in big and beautiful....yes fellows, we ladies can go there too........ just keeping it real.

Just a "heads-up" to men ages 45 and beyond. I fully realize that what someone puts on their profile is strictly of their own choosing. H-O-W-E-V-E-R, I would like to offer a clue. Do you really think that telling someone that you don't play games or not to come to you with games will actually ward off "players" and stop them from trying to play you???? Not being played is up to the "playee"....not the "player". At your ages if you don't recognize "game" when you see it then chances are......YOU WILL GET PLAYED. No one is going to just come on out and inform you that they are playing you nor are they going to pass you by just because you stated that you don't play games. Let's get real fellows. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck then "quacker", "quacker".......IT'S A DUCK.....LOL,LOL

Another clue.....I have read some of you fellows' profiles that get on women who have revealing photos of themselves on their pages. Whereas I totally agree that this is in poor taste I would just like to address the men who use such words in their page names as "69", "freak", "licker", "licka", "candylicker", dogs with long tongues hanging out of their mouths, or any other names or pictures that suggest what they do in the bedroom. Not only is this something that should be kept private but what you are advertising is nothing new and has been around for a very long time. We are all grown and know what time it is. You advertising what you do all "willy nilly" suggest that you are not particular who you do it to, and would cause any woman to believe that kissing you would be a nauseating experience to say the least?? In the word of the younger generation......"YUCK&quo t;???

I'm interested in someone who is willing to work at a relationship because I realize that in this type of dating setting where there are so many choices it makes it easy to go on to the next person when a relationship hits a snag. And, trust me, snags are inevitable but that is all a part of getting to know each other.

And just let me say this: Whereas I am not a GOLD DIGGER, I do not do BROKE either. Besides in the age group in which I'm seeking you should have it all together by now.

I am not interested in a fly-by-night relationship or a relationship where distance will create a problem in us meeting face to face. And for all you 20s and early-30 year olds, although my name IS Stella there is a certain age limit I will go to get my groove back (smile). And besides, I`m old enough to be some of you all`s (ahem) older aunt, LOL. And, oh yes, how can I put this as delicately as I possibly can. I am ALL WOMAN and require ALL MAN, no substitutes. Get my point? Enough said.

Okay, now that we understand each other, only the serious minded may respond.